Alcohol stops your liver from maintaining your blood sugar properly. If you hadn't eaten enough beforehand and were dancing very hot at the rave then possibly you pushed your body into hypoglycaemia.
Try googling stories by paramedics who pick up patients who are acting batsht but turned out to have misjudged their insulin. People can get very paranoid, bizarre and even violent.
Get checked out ASAP by your doctor in case there is an underlying problem. Definitely get your liver checked because it sounds like binge drinking is a regular thing for you. This is your wake-up call.
This is a brother problem. If he lets her disrespect you, then he isn’t caring about your relationship. Set clear boundaries and try to rebuild an individual relationship…. But don’t give an ultimatum.
Reddit would be shocked to Know about their parents and probably even more so their grandparents. Having a mistress if you were a big corporate person was pretty common not too long ago
Thats what I want to tell her “why did you even want a relationship, knowing that you're like this?” But that would just lead to the “maybe we should break up” conversation.. but nahh I don't want that. We're good together. She just has her insecure moments
You changed universes. The version of you who got transported to your original reality is really confused about her bf not knowing they were dating for a year.
I certainly wouldn’t expect to meet a partner’s child after 1 month of dating but I would absolutely expect them to tell me they had one from the very start. I’d end it over this. But I also don’t want children/to be a maternal figure for anyone so ??♀️
My mom warned me that my husband was going to leave me since I had only daughters. Your mom and my mom can go be stupid together and leave the rest of us alone.
I actually have a little bit of pity for women who think they have nothing more to offer than their reproductive capacity. I imagine it's a pretty sad life. Doesn't make it ok for them to take it out on you.
I’m not understanding. You want to spend more time with her and live together, she wants to get married. So you’re staring at the one scenario that gives you both exactly what you want and you’re upset about it?
Absolutely nothing in life is certain or predictable, that’s why it turns out life doesn’t end after marriage. Marriage doesn’t mean ‘whew we did that and now it’s smooth sailing from here on out.’ That is not actually what a marriage is, because people grow, people change, life keeps happening, and surprises are a thing. So no, the point to marriage is not ‘whew it’s smooth and relaxed so let’s do it!’
The point of marriage is when shit happens, you’re committed to continuing to work through the shit that’s happening, and you get tax benefits.
For most marriages, there is never smooth sailing. Life still happens, time moves on, and the people either continuously trying to work together and life is good, or they don’t and get divorced.
The mistake you are making is assuming life stops happening just because marriage happened.
The point of marrying someone is deciding that’s who you want on your side when life continues to happen.
Men should not be so shitty to people in the first place. It’s always women who get blamed for saying “he’s nice except…” instead of men who get who are held accountable for everything falling under that “except.”
Oh so he love bombed you and ghosted but now you're craving his attention and affection? Well, either he's not interested or he'll reach back out in 2 weeks asking to meet up so he can feed you a morself of affection to keep the cycle going.
I've been through this on both ends. Just move on. It's not worth it.
I think reddit ruined me but my suspicion is that she's the side piece
Alcohol stops your liver from maintaining your blood sugar properly. If you hadn't eaten enough beforehand and were dancing very hot at the rave then possibly you pushed your body into hypoglycaemia.
Try googling stories by paramedics who pick up patients who are acting batsht but turned out to have misjudged their insulin. People can get very paranoid, bizarre and even violent.
Get checked out ASAP by your doctor in case there is an underlying problem. Definitely get your liver checked because it sounds like binge drinking is a regular thing for you. This is your wake-up call.
This is a brother problem. If he lets her disrespect you, then he isn’t caring about your relationship. Set clear boundaries and try to rebuild an individual relationship…. But don’t give an ultimatum.
Reddit would be shocked to Know about their parents and probably even more so their grandparents. Having a mistress if you were a big corporate person was pretty common not too long ago
Thats what I want to tell her “why did you even want a relationship, knowing that you're like this?” But that would just lead to the “maybe we should break up” conversation.. but nahh I don't want that. We're good together. She just has her insecure moments
DAMN THAT UPDATE THOUGH
That is unbelievably horrendous
Ye and it got removed. But either way, can u back off?
Long term this behaviour will make you miserable. He’s fine with making you unhappy.
It’s not going to be a happy relationship when he openly calls you a problem and isn’t worried about hurting you.
Use his own tactics. Go silent until you get an apology. It probably won’t work but in the long run because it’s ultimately mutually destructive.
You changed universes. The version of you who got transported to your original reality is really confused about her bf not knowing they were dating for a year.
Most men, I included, do NOT need to choke their girl to get off.
You are fine, your current flame is fine.
The schools are both about the same league, both public and no IV league of any sorts. Both I wouldn’t have a problem attending with either.
I would suggest atleast going to the police, alot of places are adopting the idea of this being assault by failure to disclose
I certainly wouldn’t expect to meet a partner’s child after 1 month of dating but I would absolutely expect them to tell me they had one from the very start. I’d end it over this. But I also don’t want children/to be a maternal figure for anyone so ??♀️
My mom warned me that my husband was going to leave me since I had only daughters. Your mom and my mom can go be stupid together and leave the rest of us alone.
I actually have a little bit of pity for women who think they have nothing more to offer than their reproductive capacity. I imagine it's a pretty sad life. Doesn't make it ok for them to take it out on you.
I’m not understanding. You want to spend more time with her and live together, she wants to get married. So you’re staring at the one scenario that gives you both exactly what you want and you’re upset about it?
Absolutely nothing in life is certain or predictable, that’s why it turns out life doesn’t end after marriage. Marriage doesn’t mean ‘whew we did that and now it’s smooth sailing from here on out.’ That is not actually what a marriage is, because people grow, people change, life keeps happening, and surprises are a thing. So no, the point to marriage is not ‘whew it’s smooth and relaxed so let’s do it!’
The point of marriage is when shit happens, you’re committed to continuing to work through the shit that’s happening, and you get tax benefits.
For most marriages, there is never smooth sailing. Life still happens, time moves on, and the people either continuously trying to work together and life is good, or they don’t and get divorced.
The mistake you are making is assuming life stops happening just because marriage happened.
The point of marrying someone is deciding that’s who you want on your side when life continues to happen.
Tell her that you don't give cheaters the secret formula, she's a plankton now
Men should not be so shitty to people in the first place. It’s always women who get blamed for saying “he’s nice except…” instead of men who get who are held accountable for everything falling under that “except.”
Oh so he love bombed you and ghosted but now you're craving his attention and affection? Well, either he's not interested or he'll reach back out in 2 weeks asking to meet up so he can feed you a morself of affection to keep the cycle going.
I've been through this on both ends. Just move on. It's not worth it.