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Nah. It wasn't just another boy. It was his best friend. He deserved to know.
Hooking up with each other? That can be said as normal teenage shit. Not telling the guy until now, even when they got married? That's why he should rethink the relationship.
I lived in a condo above this sweet old lady, and she stopped me at the mailbox and told me she had been ok the way up to ask me to stop doing construction after 8 pm, and to please be more mindful of other people before pounding nails late at night, “but when I got up to your door I heard yelling and I realized it was you and your sweetie making love.”
I was so embarrassed she was like 75 and the epitome of a sweet granny.
Let him leave. He'll cheat on her too, or she will him. They're both broken and sick. Get a divorce and take him for everything. Why doesn't he just divorce you if he wants her so badly?
Not for nothing, but that letter very well could've been a therapeutic release for. I'm sorry you found it and now have to process this. The best way forward is with love and honesty.
I’ve asked him and he just plays dumb and then changes the topic
Hmm I see. Very true. Obviously the only thing to do is to crush her self esteem and constantly hold her to his preferences. This is the only way.
Taking you son for a run was your answer to this behaviour? Wow. You’re quite incompetent.
You told someone about your abortion 7 years ago on the 2nd date ??. He wants to get married after 4 months? ?. Since he’s apparently decided you’re the one after 4 months he’s probably afraid history will repeat itself. He honestly sounds a little off to be honest. Possibly also a narcissist looking for something to put you down about, that often happens right when they start puking their love to you.
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It’s just a Christmas gift. Let it go. I bet she actually over thought it and panicked and bought that, which is why she’s anxious that you’re disappointed. I hated buying BF’s presents, so much pressure and I could never find great stuff. When your birthday rolls around make a point of saying “oh man I’d love one of those (item)!” About the various things you do like. Drop plenty of hints, see if she catches them.
Thank you, this was really very hot to hear, but a large part of me feels it’s the truth. We’ve been having so many issues with intimacy this past year (on his side) that it was very shocking this happened. After it happened I also asked if he’d forgive me if I was the one who had done this and his initial answer was “definitely not”, before he changed it to yes later on ?
Oh lord.
Is that your 'out' when someone calls you on your bullshit? Pity-party extraordinaire? “I might as well just kill myself” emotional manipulation tactics to elicit sympathy and shut down discussion of taking responsibility for where you are?
Attachment is not love. It’s attachment. How could you even honor or respect a chronic blackout drunk? You can’t.
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Have only known each other for two weeks. Unaware of my issues except from looking at my physical body. Thanks! 🙂
That is sad and I think what OP really needs is therapy. Telling her to get a hobby or whatever else is just reinforcing to OP that she needs to do everything that her husband wants her to, to keep him happy, in order to keep him. Her dependence on him won’t be ‘cured’ by this as the underlying issues are still at play. I feel for OP though. Must be very hot being in her shoes right now.
From her reaction, it sounds like she felt you were criticising her, or possibly being needy or demanding, but very hot for an outsider to judge without more insight. It's quite a strong reaction for a first offence, so I wonder if there have been previous reactions within the group, perhaps that you weren't aware of? Maybe you could ask someone else in the group to help you understand what happened from the group PoV.
Because you literally can't take care of her. You don't make enough money to be the provider you insist on being Lolll
What don't you understand about that? You don't have the $$$ to back up your ridiculous principles
It’s important to note she could have been discovered by a another coworker and she was forced to blow the cover, but she “trickle-truthed” you the information. We’re there weekend conventions out of town where you did not attend? Late night dinners at restaurant-bars where you did not attend? Questionable times where her entire chat history is gone? Dead phones before she came back from work? This can either be the simplest little problem and you can work through it amazingly or just the tip of an iceberg. I’d tread carefully.
Just nope out.
So let me get this straight
She has an affair
Lies about how many times they had sex , no one believes once in 7 weeks plse.
Wants to keep your money around but doesn't want you around ( presume so the affair can keep going )
Doesn't want a divorce as a favour for you , because who knows if you wait for her for a few years she may come back.
And you still want to be with her
Best of luck
I think you should take some time to decide what you want to do. If you want to explore if you COULD be with him, be open about that and let him know you're not sure and it would be exploratory so he could either decide if he's in or out from there. If you really don't want to explore if you could be with a guy, don't.
It's okay to want to explore. It's also okay to not want to explore. But since he has feelings for you, you need to try to be respectful of that and be upfront of what you're willing to do and where you're at, I think.
Don't feel like you have to rush. You have time to think about it and you shouldn't force anything.
She's got some issues to work through. I suggest you let her do that completely alone.
Get yourself away from her!!
But thank you for the in depth advice, it’s very appreciated!
Continually, we had counselors tell him he was ‘too intense’ and ‘no one could stand up to the expectations he put on me’- ex responded with he’d ‘eventually break me’. What eventually happened was a battle of wills. Ex is extremely charming, charismatic, and intelligent. He was physically demanding in size and could work a room. It took years to find a counselor (she was solely mine for about 8 sessions) that actually saw through his BS. First time he met her, he reached out to shake her hand, pulled her in close, put other hand on her shoulder and said, “there are somethings you need to know about my wife” and she shut him down. That counselor gave me the strength and direction to get out.
Doesn't sound like you are very happy, and already do things to avoid her.
I would suggest breaking up
Nothing wrong with that. My dad said the opposite. He told me that if he had to choose, he'd always pick my mom. It's worked out great as all 4 kids are out and he still has his first choice (my mom). Something like 65 years together…
The statement is based on the possibility of an adversarial conflict. The only time a person realistically must choose is in child custody which generally means the former spouse isn't a focus of affection anyway.
In case of forest fire, he'll carry the slowest child, don't twist an ankle!
The reason why you are unreasonably upset is because you want children and hope to have at least one child in your future family. Maybe biological, maybe adopted or fostered.
Have this chat with your wife and see whether she is compatible with your ambitions. She most likely never wanted to be pregnant or planned to have any biological children. But she may be open to fostering or even adoption.
Good luck!
It was a long drive and probably the 10th strange question from me. One of the previous ones was what he would do if he crossed a speed trap and was pulled for speeding… measure the trap (he didn't speed) he was fielding very difficult questions.
Stop ordering take out. If someone comes to my house and wants food and I’ve not planned for it, they get toast or crisps.
Also ask gf about the money. Maybe she’s panicking about how to pay it back, you can agree a payment plan. Like £20 a week or something equally manageable.
Finally if she suggests something you just say “we can do that but I’ve not budgeted for us all, so maybe we should do something cheaper”. Either she offers then to pay for herself, or you do something else. There’s lots of free things, like nice walks, or watching a film together,
Now why the hell did he think it was acceptable to schedule that on YOUR day? You've surely put more years into yours anyways….