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Date: October 19, 2022
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Be less creepy and this relationship might actually make it somewhere.
Its like staying on messenger until he responds, it makes you look controlling, creepy and really desparate.
I'm so glad to hear this— especially that you two are capable of communicating openly and successfully about these things. It's a promising sign for your relationship 🙂
No it’s not the fault of the victim, but I wouldn’t marry someone who routinely puts themselves in the precarious position of potentially being taken advantage of, it’s a sign of low integrity and low interest in your partner’s sanity. Good for you for not having been taken advantage of yet, hope you keep up the winning streak as your husband pretends it doesn’t bother him
You'd get a divorce because your guy found a good friend he's close to that just happens to be female? Damn, some people on here are fucking insecure train wrecks lmao. You gonna be a 50 year old, lonely single woman with that attitude
i do not, one time his friends were visiting our campus during school hours, and he had plans to hang out with them while they were visiting, and of course i was fine with that i just need to hear from him once in a while to know that he is doing fine. i see, well i have not told my friends “oh hes terrible, hes a bad guy” but at the first few months of the relationship there were many arguments, no matter how much i tell my friends the good parts of the relationship, they say that theres too many bads to outweigh the good, should I have listened to them and not keep holding on and attaching myself? There are things that I have done that broke his trust, such as sending an animal post to a guy friend of mine, even though we had a conversation previously that he doesnt want me to be friends with other guys, like how he doesnt with other girls, this isnt a guy that was a new friend, he's one that i have known before him, but even then i know i shouldn't have done that, as something i found harmless was obviously not harmless to him.
Say the wrong name every once in a while to keep it interesting
And when she moves on (and there is a good chance she already has or at least has someone in mind) her daughter will move on with her. Your 'friendship' relationship with the daughter will be tossed aside once she had another father figure in her future.
You are not leaving her behind, her mother is leaving you behind. Accept all this at face value, separate living arrangements asap and move on emotionally from both of them.
I have not been keeping score. I just felt it pertinent to describe the events that put me into the frame of mind that continued throughout the rest of our relationship.
You ate where you shit. Now you have to on-line with it. Good luck.
So across all of the replies you’ve given me, I’ve seen a lot of defending of his brother’s behaviors, and a lot of blasting of your bf’s behaviors. To me, that says you’re looking for someone to just tell you to break up. Are you happy with your bf? Please realize that I don’t mean this in any hostile way! Sometimes people just aren’t compatible.
Your bf seems to have a lot of insecurities around other men. And, as I’ve already mentioned, behavior is lawful. it happens for a reason. If you’re actually ready for a serious relationship, then you need to understand that’s the kind of guy he is and you’re going to have to be able to cope with that. If not, then dump him and move on.
And please realize, your BF might also be an abuser who’s trying to isolate you so that you can’t see the “better options” around you, which also might have frequently happened in the past. I’ve lost some bros simply because I was nice to their gf and that causes their gf to think “hey, i don’t have to deal with this shit.”
What an illogical response.
When a kid is being bullied, do you say to them “well maybe you are a little loser, maybe you're not worth better treatment”.
Not saying I agree with OP's list, but your response is dumb.
You sound like me!! I'm reading advice given to you and trying to take it myself haha
Not personally no. Only stuff observed by her friends or what she would tell her friends. They would hold hands at concerts, she would sit on him (but he would tell her to get off) and would then snuggle in his neck. When they took photos together his hand would be on her waist and her hand on his chest. They watched movies together in bed and napped together, “Platonically” according to her. She wasn’t shy about her body to him either (eg walking around in panties, just a towel around her). I feel stupider the more I write stuff for thinking she actually likes me for me.
Send her a message, and if she responds great, if she doesn’t you’ve at least tried.
That's not the problem here. She wronged him by lying to him about wanting more kids with him so she could use him for what he provides for her – a home for her other kids. And when they did get pregnant like they agreed on she terminated it, not once, but twice!
Your girlfriend (I pray your ex) is a disgusting person. I would be outraged at such an accusation. You are being a caretaker for your family member.
Gf can go fly a kite. Seriously. I’m just disgusted by her ugliness.
You need to talk to your mom. I'm seeing your comments that your ex cared most about you. But clearly not. I wouldn't overthink them having coffee so much. I'm more concerned why you seem adamant against talking to your mom
Right? I tell my partners the following before we get in to bed together for the first time:
I have some problems falling asleep, so once I'm asleep, please don't wake me up unless there's some alarm going off or we're going to be late for something. That includes for sex. I do not want sleep sex. Please do not have sex with me in my sleep.
I've had several partners be like “okay, well if I get horny or it helps me get to sleep, should I just masturbate?” and my answer is always “hell yeah.”
It's not like there's not plenty of sex when we're awake. Not everyone's sex drive matches up all the time every time.
Probably because landlords increased rent an average of 14.07% across the US from 2021-2022, & increased it even more in certain areas (in Chicago, it's 22%).
I’m sorry I just read this and got sad for you..
Dude, she swung a golf club at you. Today it's a golf club, tomorrow it'll be running chainsaw.
Are you trying to get murdered? Your issue is not whether to break up with her, it's how to do it delicately so she doesn't go postal on you.
Will she ever trust me again? Is that even possible?
No you didn't, but that's what he heard.
Maybe your BF can do things to you your ex could never do, but your ex did things to you that your BF never has done to you..
I know you're not a bad person and I know you didn't say he was better than your BF, but I know how young men think because I was one not so long ago. Young men are typically insecure and you did nothing but confirm his greatest fears with your radical honesty.
this is one of those “fuck around and find out” things I think
He's not pro choice, and it's worth having a very long think about whether this is what you want in a partner, someone who doesn't believe you should have bodily autonomy.
You should not be sleeping with this man.
Depression is a terrible beast, it makes everything it touches worse, and it feeds into itself. It is extremely difficult to pull out of these kind of nose dives without professional help.
If he doesn't follow through with therapy, you may need to break up for both your sakes. Unfortunately there's really nothing you can do to make him help himself. The really terrible thing is, the more you pick up the slack in your shared lives, the more severe his depression symptoms will likely get. This is because this disease actively feeds off the good intentioned enabling of loved ones.
If you hang around the relationship advice subreddits you see this sort of pattern a lot. The depressed person feels too overwhelmed to do something so they neglect it. The depressed person's loved ones start to do it for them. The depressed person feels terrible that they are not contributing in that way, and they get more overwhelmed and wind up dropping something else. Eventually the depressed person has passively dropped all of their responsibilities onto other people and are absolutely paralyzed by a crushing amount of guilt, fear, and pure interia. The depressed person feels as though it is impossible to crawl out of the hole they are in, and all they can do is panic whenever they even think about how bad things have gotten, so the loved one(s) wind up taking care of all their former responsibilities without so much as being “allowed” to broach the topic (because the depressed person either freezes or panics whenever faced with their shortcomings.)
When things have gotten to that point, the only thing that can possibly get the depressed person to participate in their upkeep is to leave them with no choice but to face life.
I have been nearly catatonically depressed. I would probably be dead if it weren't for my boyfriend, and I feel horribly guilty of that fact. He gave me the time and space to come around to the fact that I can't do nothing for the rest of my life, but it took me breaking up with him to realize that I needed to actively maintain our relationship to the point where I didn't feel completely unworthy and non-contributing in order to be able to on-line with myself. I still do the bare minimum (and slip up plenty) but I am much better than I was.
I hope your partner can find his way out of this thing, but you need to keep him accountable for both your sakes. Don't go out of your way to take all the pressure of life off of him, because that only hurts the both of you in the end.
He sounds awful. Run. Hugs!
Loud doesn't have to mean screaming. If the headboard is banging against the wall, or they have a really creaky bed, that could be loud too.
It’s almost like she left her watch at work.
Is he your boyfriend, husband, or fiancé? Because you call him all 3
Unfortunately this problem doesn't have a simple solution BUT this isn't about you. I guarantee you he feels guilty about it but can't stop. This sounds a lot like a porn addiction. What he needs is counseling. I wish this was something that could be easily resolved but he's in too deep and I'm betting you that he had this problem before he even met you. I wish you both the best!
Tell the dude's wife.
If you don't have kids, dump her.
If you do have kids, you should probably dump her anyway.
She isn't even apologizing for what she did, right?
She sounds like a mean person and I would absolutely break up with her. You had a life before she was with you, and I would let her know that she’s immature and selfish, and that what if the next girl you date acted the same way referring to her as disgusting? But you don’t have to go that far just break up and move on to someone more accepting and mature.
Don’t spend your energy on someone who constantly gives you reasons why they wouldn’t be with you.
Give your energy to someone who expresses reasons to be with you. Give it to someone who wants to go on adventures with you. Give it to someone who builds you up.
You’re only 25. Go out and have a fun life free of someone who is obsessed with your non-existent, hypothetical weight gain. (Seriously. Why does he keep talking about it?)