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off top [Multi Goal]
Date: October 19, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
off top [Multi Goal]
You should listen to him. Maybe he's in a bad spot that will take time. Maybe he found someone he wants to pursue and not hurt you. If it were me i would move on. I would work on my life and get it to where I want to be. I would mourn the loss of him. And when I was ready i would start dating again. If he comes back and your single and still love him then great. But don't put your life on hold for someone. You are not choosing you. Life is too damn short for that. You need to treat yourself right. No one is going to stop living their life for you, why are you? If you are the one for him, he will find his way back.
thank you for the advice!
Where I come from we talk about values, religion, sex, money, houses chilfldren, and common interests. I am a tad old fashioned. Not a church goer.
Just save yourself the heartache. Call it quits. He just doesn’t want to be the bad guy. But he’s got goals that involve other girls.
For a kiss on the cheek? Okay sure. Dudes an AH who wanted to cut her loose and did it in the worst most manipulative way possible after he got what he wanted.
Thanks! Yeah, I'll be moving out asap. He can stay in the house and give me my part when sold. Right now I just want to be away from him
Text her about it so you have a written record in case she tried to frame you
Yeh that’s true, it also gives some type of calmness to go forward in the relationship
It breaks my heart to read this. You sound like a wonderful, amazing partner and it seems you are being pushed to something you don’t want by a very anxious, insecure partner. I think you know (as did your therapist) that your partner is not making healthy decisions and it seems it’s woefully unfair that you’re the one having to be burdened by your partner’s own problems. Your engagement and wedding should be a fun, exciting time of your life, not something you are forced into by your partner as an ultimatum. If you’re still not ready for marriage, then that’s reason enough to hold off. It sounds like you’ve tried every way you could to communicate your wants and needs to your partner and it sounds like your partner is not at all receptive to your feelings and holding you to an impossible ultimatum. I think you know in your heart this can’t continue, as you’ll never be fully happy in a relationship where you’re basically a hostage. It’s also just hot to believe this is the one and only time your partner has ever/will ever show this concerning control issue and that he will never again force you to do something you don’t want to do. I wish you love, luck, and healing with whatever decision you make moving forward ❤️❤️