Gaslighting and manipulation are the trademarks of narcissists.
Tell her to get fucked for lying and cheating. Tell her to get one of her sext partners to cover the gym membership. Tell her if she can't handle seeing you in town, that's her problem.
Then tell her to fuck all the way off. Pluck her out of your life like a bad tooth.
This isn't rocket science. You bought that membership when you guys were a couple. You're not anymore. Suck it up and stick up for yourself, for fuck's sake. You owe her nothing.
Ok I’m saying this as a 17 year old single mother who was told if I don’t have the baby I’d be kicked out. Only to be kicked out anyway right after having a C section. I went to a woman’s shelter and they helped me get on my my feet. I have a 1 bedroom, I work two at home jobs so I can take care of her and doing live schooling. If I can manage you can too.
This man doesn’t empathise with you because he doesn’t care to. He is using you and using manipulation to keep you in place because you let him treat you like this (I don’t mean to say this in a victim blaming way) but you need to leave him. He is a POS
Not your fault your friend and BIL suck.
Can't say I've ever invited a friend to meet my family and thought 'geeze, hope they don't destroy my family”
Because deep down he knows it's wrong and is only posting here to try to convince himself otherwise
Gaslighting and manipulation are the trademarks of narcissists.
Tell her to get fucked for lying and cheating. Tell her to get one of her sext partners to cover the gym membership. Tell her if she can't handle seeing you in town, that's her problem.
Then tell her to fuck all the way off. Pluck her out of your life like a bad tooth.
This isn't rocket science. You bought that membership when you guys were a couple. You're not anymore. Suck it up and stick up for yourself, for fuck's sake. You owe her nothing.
Ok I’m saying this as a 17 year old single mother who was told if I don’t have the baby I’d be kicked out. Only to be kicked out anyway right after having a C section. I went to a woman’s shelter and they helped me get on my my feet. I have a 1 bedroom, I work two at home jobs so I can take care of her and doing live schooling. If I can manage you can too.
This man doesn’t empathise with you because he doesn’t care to. He is using you and using manipulation to keep you in place because you let him treat you like this (I don’t mean to say this in a victim blaming way) but you need to leave him. He is a POS