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Date: October 19, 2022
I wouldn't find it hurtful, but I would not find it workable. “That won't work for me. Visiting people is fine, but I'll always want my own place.”
My wife did exact thing to me. I expressed to her that her trips and her actions of leaving me out were hurting me deeply.
She hated the fact that she was hurting me, but she really wanted to keep doing it.
After 30 years of marriage, we’re now getting a divorce.
You seem to have a very strong, narcissistic personality.
Research narcissism. Watch some YouTube videos.
Hm I guess so. It just seems strange for people to get so hung up on. We still hang out and spend time together. We sleep together sometimes, but we just really enjoy having space for our own things and time to ourselves.
How would she take it if you body shamed her? That’s exactly why she’s doing to you! In a world where every other article is about women being body shamed, she’s literally shaming you.
My ex could have had a 12in penis and current man could have a 4 and I would NEVER ever say crap like that. Glad you think she’s a sweetheart regardless of her making fun of you but you need to seriously look up the definition of sweetheart.
“We both want to work it out. “
Ask yourself why. It is not for the same reason, the reason you are assuming anyway.
You caught her before, and because she enjoyed it so much, even after you finding out (not by her incidentally) that she ‘escalated’ to sex with a rando. To get to that point, what do you think had to happen? How many decisions, chats, lies etc? She has been sneaking around with this gym lie for a while and you think in all that time that this was her first meet?
Pull your head out of your arse.
She is a repeat cheater and its a very safe bet there is loads you have yet to discover. She does not love you the way you love her, not anymore and perhaps never has. The more you bend to allow for this behaviour the more she will understand that you will accept her whatever she does. It will happen again because the only cost for her is saying some words and feigning discomfort.
What has she done to plan a way to winning your trust back? She has not offered you anything – will still expect to go out with a circle of friends who at the very least some will know and turn a blind eye to her antics. You are getting cheap words and are filling in emotional blanks to make yourself feel better. Pound to a penny she feels bad for herself, what she may lose and whom, more than she feels for you.
At this critical stage being weak will condemn you to a future of this on repeat. Accept this person isnt who you thought and while you can mourn that, you need to be firmer with the real person underneath.
There is a big difference if it had stopped with the first one and she had told you herself. Now she is addicted to sleazing around. You will no doubt try to help her with this impulse while minimising your own pain, and you will fail at both.
Come to your senses and tell family and friends so they can support you. Do not let her hide her shame under the shade of your pain.
I wish you well.
You are strong. You decided to leave and that shows strength. Just go, get settled with your family and your new job, and ignore this POS
He is right. Realtionships aren't smooth sailing. Especially long-term ones. If you are gonna spend your entire life with someone, you WILL fuck up eventually. The most important thing is to realize your wrongdoings, apologize and be better. You say you have excellent communication; that's great. Use it to let each other know how you feeling every so often. Just quitting at the first wrong turn is not a reasonable reaction. Have a chat about it with him and express your vunlrability. If you suspect you have ADHD might be worth consulting with your GP.
I would sit him down and say that being good parents has to come first. Having birthday parties can be a simple, joyful thing you do for your kiddo. Why deny them?
His reaction is so extreme, I have to assume he has some issues with birthdays. I would tell him that he needs to figure this out, either with a professional or by himself. It's hurting your kid now, so fixing it is no longer optional.
I think you're stuck in a common but very self-defeating pattern. You have a talk, she puts in a tiny bit of effort, or at least says the right things, then slowly returns to the old pattern, until things reach a breaking point, and you have The Talk again.
The problem is that this can't go on forever, as you're experiencing. Every time the cycle happens, it increases strain on the relationship.
Sometimes I feel like a broken record, and it isn't a panacea, but therapy here would be critical. You've tried to talk it out yourself, to no avail. She needs to figure out herself, and then be honest and clear about how she feels, while listening and understanding how you feel, and how critical this is to your relationship. Sure, you can do this just sitting down together, but look at how that's gone so far? She says enough to placate you. And then things go back.
Your resentment is understandable. And it will poison any attempt to resolve this on your own, I think. A neutral third party that you can BOTH be honest with might help you figure out just where you stand. Maybe there will be a point where you have to confront a future where you simply don't have physical affection from her, if she has no interest in it. That sucks, but at least it allows you to make your decision with all the information out in the open, and not dance around it.
She is allowed to have two father figures. You are not trying to replace her “other” dad so I don't see a problem. Nice to hear that you have reached that status level in her mind.
This is where insisting comes in. She may need therapy to feel safe leaving your kids, but she needs to be able to spend time away from them for all of your sakes.
You need to tell her what you need – fun nights out. You can start with baby steps, but you have to start somewhere.
I cannot state strongly enough how important it is for the two of you to take time alone together sometimes if your real goal is to be together forever.
You also have GOT to dig deep and muster some compassion for your wife. She’s not just hashing your mellow, dude. She sounds freakin’ paralyzed.
You have conflicting values. She’s sending those for attention and responses. You can’t say she isn’t allowed but you can say you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who needs outside validation through explicit photos.