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Date: October 18, 2022
Your reaction is understandable, but what did she say when you confronted her? It sounds like she was happy with you so wondering if it was one of those stupid jokes between friends and she hadn't thought how it would look to you.
It sounds like you need to press charges against your Dad, for whatever it was that he did to you. I am sorry you're having such a hot time lately, but at least your brother will pull through and maybe you two can do therapy and help each other through this awful part of life.
A few things here.
1) you're trying hot to salvage and build a relationship, but that's really hard, I'd say impossible, if you aren't both working on it. This seems rather one sided.
2) the word “sensitive” can mean a couple of things. Either she's manipulative and immature. She's going to cry and you're too immature to handle it, possibly you have a severe fear of conflict. Or some combination/variation of the two where neither of you are emotionally capable of a sincere conversation for a variety of reason.
When she says, “Cool. I'll invite so and so…” that is quite literally your window to say, “That's cool, but I can't foot the bill for them…”
If she throws a fit, then she IS NOT SENSITIVE she is, at best, a brat.
The advice is simple to give and probably a little harder to take, set a boundary, and stick to it. Make your feelings known and have a full conversation if needed.
The only people who are upset by your boundaries are the people who benefit from you having none.
To be blunt OP – just run. Almost everything else you should at least consider trying to work things out, but never with abuse.
I get that she does get a bit childish when she’s upset. I swear there’s nothing more to this. I made a wrong move told her to continue and refused to answer what I did wrong. I didn’t expect this big of a reaction
OP, whats stopping him from leaving you from her? If he truely did not love her but loved her you would not be together anymore.
I will never understand why families often are so blind about abuse and abuse victims finally setting boundaries. I felt the same way, similar background like you, went no contact with my mom and everyone was like „omg how can you do that to your poor mother“ and it’s like HAVE YOU FUCKING SEEN WHAT SHE DID TO ME??? Are you all blind?
Sorry you have to go though that. Don’t let it get to you. Your mother has no right to be upset and neither does anyone else in this constellation. You’re a strong woman to set those boundaries while pregnant and you deserve to be seen and heard.
Communicate.
As far as your GF lying to you about her coworker your anger is justified and righteous. I can also see why she did it based on how crazy this dipshit coworker was. It honestly sounded like she has a very justifiable and valid argument for believing that she was in a very volatile and dangerous situation. I can understand her thinking that she didn't want to add more fuel to the fire with this psycho and unfortunately made a bad decision. But I don't believe she made a bad decision to betray or upset you. I honestly think she was just trying to safely navigate through this situation.
Because of this I honestly wouldn't waste too much time stressing out about it. She sounds like a genuinely good person who was in a highly volatile situation. Definitely have a very direct and clear conversation that moving forward that there's to be no more lies for any reason. Then I would just move on. But that is just me. Best of luck.
I will never understand why so many people want to know or talk about their partners past sexual history. Why? Just why? I find it especially outrageous that a person would also be so insecure that they would actually be threatened and get jealous about their partners past sexual history.
Sadly, this is going to be hot for many people to hear. Your partner had amazing sexual experiences with other people before you. They were exciting and satisfying. Probably up until that moment if they were really attracted to the other person the sex was more than likely the best sex they had ever had with anyone up until then. All of the wonder and excitement that you are currently feeling, especially in new relationships, is the same thing that they felt in the beginning of past relationships. Are you ok? Are you still with me?
With that being said for some reason the relationship didn't work out which is why you two are now dating. Maybe they weren't compatible. Maybe one was jealous. Who knows why it didn't work out all we can be sure of is that it didn't work out. However great the sex was in the beginning it wasn't great enough to save the relationship.
But the person you are currently with has to have had every one of those experiences, good and bad, to become the person you have now fallen for and want to be with. For that, you should be thankful. Not insecure or jealous. That's why so many people lie about their past history. They don't want to deal with their partners'irrational jealousy and insecurity.
You don’t owe him a justification. He doesn’t have to agree- you have right to unilaterally end the relationship at any time, for any reason or no reason at all.
“I don’t think you are right for me” is all you need to say. Then I’d block him, and make sure all mutuals know that you’ve ended it, and ask them not to give him any information about you, and block him.
Exactly. And if she SEEMS ok he will 100% escalate (let's be real he already is) and next thing you know she's doing all manner of bad shit to keep him.
Show a healthy relationship over time. If you can’t do that, then they were right.