Mother's love has no limits sometimes, it hurts me imagining you spending all those years away from your child and now you have the opportunity to streghten your bond, don't pay attention to comments judging this situation.
You are going to figure it all together as a family now, and I wish you only the best, much love for you and your family.
They're definitely not more important than my partner's feelings, although I do feel strongly about her friend, I just feel that if we are to continue with what we're doing my partner has to know how I feel
I would cut your losses. He lives far away, he’s choosing his friend over you, and he ruined your birthday. Find someone who respects you more and lives closer.
That’s the thing, I agree with you but she said she wants different. She want us to live in our separate places, get engaged then get a place together. But I think that’s not smart
I would just be honest with her about everything you wrote here. It is well thought out and your concerns are valid. It’s not what you say but how you say it. I think if you bring these things up calmly and respectfully it will be fine.
You should take that hint…
Go tell your family and ask for help.
Stop making excuses for why you're staying with someone against your will.
Mother's love has no limits sometimes, it hurts me imagining you spending all those years away from your child and now you have the opportunity to streghten your bond, don't pay attention to comments judging this situation.
You are going to figure it all together as a family now, and I wish you only the best, much love for you and your family.
You need to upgrade your friend level.
They're definitely not more important than my partner's feelings, although I do feel strongly about her friend, I just feel that if we are to continue with what we're doing my partner has to know how I feel
I would cut your losses. He lives far away, he’s choosing his friend over you, and he ruined your birthday. Find someone who respects you more and lives closer.
Going through a normal stage of development in early adulthood =/= deficiency.
Did that help? I tried to keep it real simple.
That’s the thing, I agree with you but she said she wants different. She want us to live in our separate places, get engaged then get a place together. But I think that’s not smart
I would just be honest with her about everything you wrote here. It is well thought out and your concerns are valid. It’s not what you say but how you say it. I think if you bring these things up calmly and respectfully it will be fine.