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Date: October 17, 2022
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Yeah, but he doesn’t come to appointments. The first operation did not go as planned. The first procedure did not go ahead before a certain point (not down to me or my decisions but because they were not sure how to proceed themselves), and according to the limited data I can find on-line, that would have increased the chances of success. This alone shows that the doctors are not 100% on how to approach the condition.
You’ve missed the point of my post. I asked for help in how to proceed, how do I put a stop to this on a subject matter that I sincerely do not think they understand the severity of? I go to people if I have an opinion, I’m trying to get this resolved in a dignified manner for everyone, I have only spoke to one person about this before posting, as they are very level headed whereas I would normally go in all guns blazing which is never good and I’m trying to be better.
I understand they have an interest in my son’s wellbeing, that I’m not disputing, but I want help in how to address the way the communication has gone down.
Same. It was the best. I don’t know why people wait. One of my friends just got engaged, and he’s wanted kids but his fiancée doesn’t. He’s gonna be alright without them, but it breaks my heart that they didn’t sort that out before they got attached.
He is a tight on money at the moment and would be able to get his $100 back out of it. He was also a little mad the day that the machine incorrectly charged him, but other than that I’m not too concerned.
Has he got some kinda weird poop fetish or something?
He sounds gross tbh.
You house sometimes smells like s*it by your own admission and he's upset when you use a plunger???
(Yuk yuk f**King yuk ??)
Pediatricians are so extra. All “keeping up with modern research” and “looking out for the best for the child.” It's getting ridiculous.
How I didn't appreciate her going radio silent Monday and how it seems to be a growing issue that makes me worried and feel like trash.
This is a tricky one, as this was an old phone but also still technically his private stuff.
Given that there are nudes of his ex, I'd say that is a bit more concerning than if it were just randoms girls.
If he hasn't used the phone in a long time, then they may just be leftovers that he hasn't seen in a long time. If he still uses the phone on the regular, then it is a more pressing concern.
If you're okay with him potentially jacking to his ex, then you don't have to say anything. But if it bothers you, then I'd suggest confronting him about it.
Pay what is legally required or child support, not a penny more.
She made her bed, let her lay in it.
OP I was in a similar situation but in your boyfriend perspective, in my case my then gf was a little older than me, we hand a three years. But we were in different stages of life she was finishing her masters degree, had a high demanding but good paid job and recently had bought her own apartment and I was still finishing my degree and working a minimum wage job while living with my parents and paying 50/50 of all our dates and plans together because she had some trauma because her parents divorced because of money.
I was clear with her that I wouldn't marry until I finish university and being in a better financial situation, when she gave me an ultimatum I asked foe a couple of weeks of space to think about it and I reached the conclusion that I was not ready to marry and live together and I end things with her, I broke her hearth and mine too because I loved her but it was the right call.
We keep being friends and a couple of years later she ask me for advice about getting married with his now husband because she was in a foreign country and had visa issues, I told her go ahead give it a shot and after 15 years of marriage she has two beautiful kids and the guy looks nice.
After finishing the relationship with her I graduated, score a better job and for five years I was in several FWB relationships because I didn't want to have anything to see with relationships, but then I meet my now wife and falled in love with her, we had a long distance relationship because I was studying abroad for four years, traveling at least twice a year to see her. Then she ask me to live! together in the country I was studying and the answer was clear, yes it was a great risk, but I think I couldn't make it better she is the best thing I have in my life.
Love is not enough and this kind of decision sucks, but you did the right thing, your expectations were different and sooner or later this was going to increase the conflict in the couple to a burning point. You will find the right person for you OP and things will take it's place correctly.
Good luck.
She was a minor when you started dating.
Troll.
OP, I totally understand how your ears parked up when hearing your own name.
Please think long and nude from both perspectives, pro and con, before making this life changing decision. He sounds like a great guy and I think you could involve him in this decision and weigh the pro's and cons together. Talk it out.
My point is, lots of parents talk about how great parenting is and having children really is great I agree.
But people, not even your doctor, really talks about the medical risks. Like how from 2007-2016, 700 WOMEN A YEAR DIED during pregnancy in the USA. And that mortality rate has gone up 30% since the pandemic started. That's just pregnancy. The US has an estimated 26.4 deaths per 100,000 live births. So this is not a risk-free endeavor!
That's death, but there's a host of changes not covered under “death”. This will change your body forever. I'm not talking about your waistline getting bigger or cosmetic changes. I'm talking about permanent changes that will change the way you live!.
For one example: For many women, they have trouble holding their bladder when they laugh or sneeze or just suddenly have to go. Then you can't hold it in and it starts to dribble down your leg and through your clothes because you can't hold back the tide. This happened to my friend at the office and she was mortified in the bathroom when she realized she really needed a shower and a change of clothes but was stuck in the bathroom stall in the middle of the office in the mid-morning in smelly, wet pants!
Before you allow your MIL and casts of thousands into your delivery room, even on the other side of the curtain, realize that many women defecate when labor begins. It smells. Something to consider when planning your birth!
It's can be a beautiful experience. For some it is. For others it's hell and they don't have more than 1 baby for this reason. A friend had painful sex for months then years after, and the doctor immediately said it was a chronic condition that she “just needed to adjust to”, so her husband divorced her. Queen Victoria had anxiety attacks at the idea of repeating childbirth. She said it was the most painful thing she'd ever experienced in her life and she said famously something along the lines of “no woman would do this if there was any other option.” This was in the days before birth control so her options were limited.
Personally, I didn't think birth itself was all that painful, but that's me. I did develop a disease that's been with me ever since. And will be forever. I have considered suicide so many times because there's days it's a living hell. But I love my kids and don't want to leave them without a mom. So I'm trapped. It could have been prevented but the doctor ignored the warning signs. Doctors often ignore women, especially women of color. He told me to stop being so hysterical and desperate for attention.
Also during pregnancy, I told my doctor repeatedly I was in pain that felt like stabbing in mid chest area. He said it was probably just gas and waived it off. Turned out I needed my gallbladder removed but had to wait until after the pregnancy for the surgery. Every Time I ate, even bananas/applesauce, I'd get those stabbing pains.
Many women develop diabetes while pregnant. Sometimes it goes away after childbirth, sometimes it becomes a lifelong ailment.
Sometimes your organs permanently shift and their new positions aren't as good. Sometimes you need surgery to put things back or strengthen or reinforce places that got weak in pregnancy/birth. (Remember all those commercials for class action lawsuit about needing abdominal mesh implanted in your body following birth? Those poor women went through hell.
Or you decide not to take the risk and you live! with the pain or inconvenience. And surgery is ALWAYS a risk. Sometimes those surgeries aren't successful or there's complications. Some women still die in childbirth especially women of color who are more likely to be ignored. If you have a benign tumor for years, suddenly those pregnancy hormones might start it growing like crazy.
I'm not trying to scare anyone. I just want to balance the tables a bit. When your colleague comes back from maternity leave she's not going to stand up in the team meeting and say, “I love my kids but I wish I didn't have these hemorrhoids so it hurts and I bleed every time I poop, and it's not going to fix itself unless I want to risk surgery. Yay! Now let's all overshare!” Especially if men are there, they are probably going to object to hearing about it,cuz most men don't like hearing about “female body issues” like periods, UTIs, and birth.
This leads women to the false conclusion that pregnancy and birth are ALWAYS peachy, just because no one wants to be a Debbie Downer and say what really happened to them!! I wish women felt more freedom to share.
Best of luck to you, whatever you decide!!
Here's a general guideline: If you're unable to properly articulate your thoughts in a way that doesn't sound shitty, chances are your thoughts are just straight up shitty.
Her behavious is passive aggressive. As you rightly say, waking up at different times is probably not the reason she has wanted to sleep in different rooms.
Passive aggression commonly happens when someone feels they cannot be direct about how they really feel without being shut down and invalidated.
To me, it sounds like you're in denial about something big. Your story lacks context and self-awareness. I suspect that you are a long way from faultless in this relationship.
OP now that no one believes you, please give us a little insight in why you would write this. I'm dying to know every time I read such a very true story. What do you get out of it?
Your title mentions him complaining your don't carry your own weight but your description doesn't.
Your description sounds like he's just complaining about being stir crazy, how exactly is this your problem? This sounds like his problem.
Your problem sounds like deciding how long you want to subsidize this guy because any savings you would have had if he was paying rent you will not be getting back.