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Date: October 17, 2022
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do you tell women who feel uncomfortable with their men colleagues to just stick with it
Literally nobody said that. They said, “that’s risky in a work environment”, and that's a true statement.
There shouldn't be such risk, certainly. But the reality is that OP's boyfriend needs to navigate this situation as best he can. None of us knows what his work environment is like, or whether his leadership can be trusted to do the right thing.
I think it felt natural?
Very strange.
To make a quick addition to this post, I did post a similar story 164days ago over this same issue. Since deleted
True, but we stayed together 5 years, i know him very well, and had the occasion of speaking with people that saw her do it (they were teens when they started)
Yea she should lol
It sounds like you broke up with her over the phone. Why would any of her friends still follow you? And if she isn't accusing you of something that could get you in legal trouble or cause you to lose your job, why do you care what she's saying about you? You broke up, apparently, because she wasn't treating you well or taking accountability. Did you expect that to change after you were no longer with her? Block her on everything and move on. You are still allowing her to have power over you by putting so much thought into what she's doing. She's not your problem anymore.
I have a couple options I use when I don't have access to therapy.
First is journaling / art – this will also show up in a lot of the self help books and is often a part of therapy. If writing your first post and update helped you feel better, journaling might be a good solution, it's just taking all the thoughts when they're overwhelming and putting them down on paper, or on a digital journal. I like paper because I like nonlinear journals, it means I just flip to a random page in the journal, pick a part of the page (a lot of my pages I've broken into segments or drawn big circles or funny shapes to write in), and fill the whole space with my words. I like the nonlinear a lot because if someone else tries to read it, it's noncohesive to anyone but myself. Drawing as well, even bad drawings to just get the feelings out.
The other thing I liked from self help books and therapy is finding a new hobby or learning a new skill. I can highly recommend knitting, crochet, quilting, or even just reading for pleasure, since you can also find groups for all those activities (and they're pretty mixed age groups, though with a bias towards older). A knitting circle is actually a really good place to find good friends and something productive to do outside your apartment every week. (It's also more affordable than a cooking class, though if there's a free cooking class in your area, those are also great productive distractions).
But yes, the public library is a very good resource. Besides Hoopla and Libby for books, the library has live free classes for a ton of things from creative to business to language, can help you find clubs to join, and more! It's also a place outside your apartment to go to that's still pretty quiet.
I would also argue she should talk to her brother because he needs to know these are not safe people to be around. It's not fair to him to keep this information from him. They believe that he is less deserving of basic human right, just because of something he cannot control. He needs to know that, like yesterday.