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ALL GOALS MET [Multi Goal]
Date: October 17, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
ALL GOALS MET [Multi Goal]
He needs to work on his empathy. To me it sounds very dismissive. If you can’t talk to your partner and emotional support person why be together.
That happens a couple of different ways. Based on the language you use about trying to get her to 'understand' that what you're saying is right and how to confront her to understand, it is likely that she is acquiescing to get you to stop because you are fully unwilling to have any sort of equal exchange with her. You can berate her until she gives in but you have not changed her mind, you have simply bullied her. You can keep doing it and keep having this problem and the problem will eventually go away because at some point she will no longer tolerate the disrespect.
By the way, I don't think there is anything wrong with you objecting to her decision to tell your friend's girlfriend that your friend is a bad influence on you. She is fully entitled to do that and you need to realize she she is entitled to have thoughts and opinions and she is entitled to decide to say what she wants to say to anyone she wants to say it to. However, we all edit ourselves every moment of every day and there are things that are better left unsaid.
So the root of this particularly conflict is drugs. Why does your girlfriend believe that this friend is someone that promotes your drug use?
You are 21, you barely know what an issue is and if you have that many at your age then you two had absolutely no business getting married.
Wisen up and cut your loses, this marriage is ridiculous.
If it’s going to get your culturally disowned , I wouldn’t risk it I’m sorry But