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I literally said in an earlier comment that women do this too. It's still not “normal” to do this regardless of gender. Keeping nudes of exes who most likely wish you delete those for their own safety, is not healthy. It's messed up. They share that because they trusted you. Once the trust is over and you break up, using their nudes as fap material is fucking nasty. Out of respect for the relationship you had, you should delete them.
She can be both monogamous or polyamorous. Just because she's willing to be poly doesn't mean she can't be monogamous.
That said, my husband is like you, extremely monogamous. He loves being married. I love that. It makes me feel very secure in our marriage, knowing it's not just me, but the lifestyle, that he wants.
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to be fair I pursued him even after learning his age (he doesnt look in his 40s I thought he was in his mid-late 30s) and even after learning he “had a girlfriend” but honestly after the comments everyone is leaving I quite literally want to ask his ex for her side of the story,,, but then I'm like “really? you're ONE MONTH IN and you need THIS kind of 'validation'?”
The counselors suggestion is a really good idea. You’re just mentally screwing with yourself. Your wife doesn’t have to like your family. That may come in time and maybe it won’t. If you want to call your sister and maintain peace calling from the car is a really good idea.
Would going together be a good idea? Should we go separately and then go together sometimes? I am really new into this, but I want to be supportive, I want to try my best at least.
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he told me that bisexual girls are just “feminine lesbians”
Lmao so the boy is stupid as well as bigoted. The trash took itself out, honey.
I am thinking of ways to win him back, and one of those was to lie to him, saying that I'm not bisexual, even though I am.
No! Why would you want him back? Suppressing part of your identity so you can date a homophobe really isn't it. He's not the love of your life, because the love of your life would accept you exactly as you are.
Go eat your favorite comfort food with your friends and thank the universe for making you bisexual so you have a built-in mechanism for weeding out jerkwads like this.
Bottom line is you’re too young to feel the need to stick around while being disrespected. Dump her ass.
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No. You did not understand me. Talking to him means telling him the impact it had on our family. Keeping him in my life means coexisting with distance. These people all work together.
1 option is completely disappearing, removing all of these friends, or being around this person. Obviously I’m following my husband’s lead here, but he’s not sure right now
This is exactly what I’m afraid of. All that stress and reliving it for no return. And if that guy finds out I’m afraid he will retaliate. This is new territory for us. I’m at a loss
When you say '2 days' what day did she leave and at what time and when is she coming back? Because 'overnight' doesn't equal '2 days'. 2 days is 48 hours.
If my partner gained 60lbs in our time together, it means that our life values are inherently incompatible – the weight is just a symptom of that.
I'm a very active woman, love to play sports in my free time and eat well, and if my partner doesn't share those values, we aren't compatible. I want someone to share a healthy life with me… play tennis on Sundays together, go skiing in the winter, run races, etc.
I don't know if this is something that factors into your relationship, but it absolutely would in mine.
Writings on the wall. Read it.
So go marry Wendy to keep her happy.
Its a pretty dumb to appease others at your own expense. Stop socializing with Wendy, she doesn't respect your boundaries
I’m sorry that happened, but it’s in the past. She’s trying to make things better for you by going to a different gym. Give things a try again at your old gym. You never know how you’ll really feel unless you try it
They can afford to because you don't know them…
I’m the only person that my husband has been with. I had 3 boyfriends before my husband, one was a serious relationship of almost 5 years. My husband says that’s he’s happy that he didn’t waste his time with anyone else, that sex with me is the best, that I’m the most beautiful woman in the world and that he had cancer because it was unfair to the world to be so lucky and so happy with me.
My first boyfriend said almost the same to me (we were going to different universities). At the time I was in love with him. But one in Uni I learned what it meant to have a partner that truly respects and values you feels. And, looking back, he was an asshole.
If it’s nude for you to break up, go to a different college and enjoy your relationship until the time to move comes. You deserve to have a wonderful college experience, and worrying about your boyfriend being with other girls, seeing him with other girls and watching him everyday it’s going to be hard.
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That’s the thing. Up until now we’ve always been open with these things. But this was different, and she has understandable reasons, but it shouldn’t be different or need excuses. Is my security not worth making sacrifices?
That is a typical reaction. They break up because they want someone “better for them/find love” but love itself runs deep and also consists of friendship and companionship. Then they realize what they have done and are sad.
I agree end things before it gets ugly. He already broke up with you and wanted to “keep dating.. string you along in case someone better didn’t materialize”? You made the correct choice in breaking up. Don’t let him talk you into another relationship! He had his chance but didn’t think you were worthy. Now you are free.
Yes a breakup is nude but it’s better for you to be not with him. He probably wants you back but unless you want the “it gets ugly “ part I would not go back under any circumstances. If he bothers you too much block and delete his number. Your family loves you, lean on them for emotional support.
Forget how stupid one can get, find an amicable exit of that situation ASAP.
So she also have to quit her job?
What isn't fair to you exactly? Give her some time!
What she'll do in Toronto? Be miserable? Any positive things happening in Toronto that you can talk to her about? How do you see her there..what she would do, what will excite her there? You?
You need to do what you can live with. Just be mindful that it could backfire and he could end up being mad at you if you tell him the truth.
Those aren't the most important pieces. OP's reaction and general insecurities are the most important pieces. Notice how I never said this other woman was in the right. I'm saying OP's reaction (going wild and demanding to see his phone while intoxicated while he has been honest and patient with her from the start) was completely beyond the pale.
I think you know it’s abnormal and you always hear how these things escalate as the months go by.
This isn’t the man for you. You deserve much more respect, consideration and empathy than this man is capable of providing.
What relationship is worth bringing a child into this world that you don't feel ready for? Children tend to be more permanent than many relationships.
He may want to have sex with you but it does not seem that this is the only thing he is looking here with you as he kisses you and does not press sex much. You can yet talk to him about your aim to make this serious as you are not looking for a casual sex and if he is on the same page with you then go on a few dates before having sex. You have all right to ask him about his intention and expectations from you so you can take a better decision. You make things clear to him that you do not want hook up thing as you are looking for a relationship and if he is not sure then he can take his time to decide what he wants and you like to wait but sex will not happen unless he shows intention to be in committed relationship with you.
You dodged a huge bullet. Is her family rich? Is she rich? Because that’s going to be extremely expensive.
And how well would you like it if you disclosed some the things that haunt you from your time in the military, and your wife said, “Ew, now I have to live with those images”?
I saw your edit. Look, man, you’re not getting the answers you’re looking for here, because you’re coming at this hypothetical from a totally different angle than all the commenters (and, I suspect, your wife). You’re trying to examine this literally, and everyone else is way more compelled by the emotional dialogue behind the scenario.
What you hear your wife saying: Sure, I’d have sex with a home intruder. Sex isn’t sacrosanct to me and this wouldn’t be a big deal.
What your wife is ACTUALLY saying: I love you so much that I’d subject myself to pain and humiliation to save your life. Even though there’s no guarantee it would save us from this terrifying situation, I’d take whatever small chance I could to keep you safe. I would be traumatized, but I’d do it for us.
What you think you’re saying: I’m not convinced that’s the smart move. We could just as easily get killed anyway, so why subject ourselves to the psychological consequences if we live!? Why are you offering yourself up to the home intruder if it doesn’t even make logical sense — is it not a big deal to you?!
What your wife hears you saying: I don’t love you as much as you love me. I wouldn’t put my body on the line for you. I’m not moved that you care enough about me to take a sexual assault for me, and in fact if you did make that sacrifice for me, I would consider it disloyalty, like you were disrespecting our marriage, and I would be disgusted.
That’s why this has blown out of proportion. It’s not about what’s actually a reasonable response in a home intruder scenario (though anything you can do to buy time and appease the attacker is usually considered the right move, and if the intruder had rape on his mind, you wouldn’t be able to simply decline). You should apologize your wife, explain that you were having two different conversations, and reassure her that you love her and would do anything to protect her. She needs to feel safe with and valued by you.
You don't like it. Once should have been enough. This isn't something you have to get used to. It's personal choice and yours is not to have it. There are no toys, there are no creams or gels that make this better, just choice.
My advice to you is to let him know you are not going to even try and accommodate his bullshit request if he doesn't understand then tell him to go fuck himself. (I tried to think of something more diplomatic to say but I really couldn't.)
Underrated comment. Should be top.
I would also feel uncomfortable.
It feels like he’s being weirdly defensive.
I would just say “hey, I’m feeling insecure about you spending all day with ________, she’s clearly into you and has made it clear she would sleep with you – the whole cheating thing. Can you try to only talk with her when it’s for work related reasons & to try and distance yourself?”
What does she want you to do, give it a trim??
Kidding. She needs to go to the gyno doctor. Sounds like vaginismus.
Intuition is there for a reason. Run as fast as you can away from him.
Could you link your source? Because that sounds like bullshit.
Distraction is a very common coping mechanism when it comes to grief
That's the best part lmao the world's really changing
Yeah basically. Nothing wrong with that, just wish he didn’t string me along for the ride
So many people here claiming she must be trying to baby trap you? Only you know if you trust her on that one, but assuming she is telling the truth and taking the pill regularly, you should have nothing to worry about. Just get sti tests beforehand.
So you just make stuff up. Great to know
I’d say this goes outside of your pre established trust as there wasn’t a bill to be paid or an email to be shared – you just saw a text and decided to read her entire conversation. I can imagine her feeling as if you’d crossed a line by reading her texts with a friend. I think you should be honest and tell her what you saw, since it’s affecting you. I think you framed it as “saw her texts” instead of “purposefully read her texts” because you’re aware you stepped over the line.
I’d agree with another comment or that those texts might have reflected her day-of thoughts/immediate feelings and that her willingness to try again could have come from further reflection.
Keep walkin' Sister. He will hurt you again. Don't let him drag you down when you can live your life and find someone who you can depend on.