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anitataylor chat
Date: October 15, 2022
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I’ve been in your shoes, I was 16 when I realised my mum was cheating on my dad. I confronted her initially and she told me I was acting like a dramatic teen & trying to cause drama. Eventually, it all came out & my parents are now divorced. My mum is with the guy she cheated with.
For a start, none of this is your fault. Your dad is the one responsible for ruining his vacation, and if your relationship is damaged because of this, that’s his fault too. If/when your mum finds out, that’s still his fault. None of the blame should fall on you, but I understand why you feel that way. I felt guilty when I figured it out, but my dad was still unaware. He’s never blamed me though. To be blunt, if it does come out, things will go pear shaped for a little while. It won’t be easy. Watching your parents go through a divorce as a teen is far more difficult than a little kid. I was unable to understand all the intricacies, and I was acutely aware of how everyone was feeling. It was really very hot to see my dad so upset, and know that there was nothing I could do to make it better.
Be strong for your mums sake, it will be hard, but I promise that the relationship between you & her will be so much stronger. My dad is my best friend & the first person I go to (other than my husband).
I’m really sorry that your dad has done this to your family. Just remember that he is the only one responsible for creating this mess. ❤️
I get that, but a lot of people in this thread are hung up on that, and I don't think 7 is a lot.
I was a “late bloomer” in my school, and only had 3 by the age of 17. The popular and handsome/beautiful kids had waaaay more before we all graduated. And this was pre-smartphone era.
Honestly, before 20, relationships do feel disposable since both sides are growing and learning what they want, what is reasonable, what is not normal, etc. On another comment, OP is literally looking to jump into another relationship to get over this one. I think he still needs to grow up, and the only way for him to do it is through first-hand experience.
She cheated…so why are you still with her?
The boyfriend is uncomfortable bc he’s a controlling insecure little bitch boy
Excuse* FTFY
she's not complaining. she is starting a fact and asking for relationship advice on how to deal with it.
The same can be said about her and her exorbitant cost for the engagement ring
Finally a good well rounded answer, the number of people here who cant see her red flags is crazy.
Id save my favorite pictures on a Hot drive, and delete 90% of them off FB, but to expect all traces of Ex GF to go because youre…what…jealous?..afraid to be Judged? (you wouldnt be).
My manipulation senses would be tingling being this guy, his probably were but he lashed out the wrong way