Even if he was just looking around and just curious as to what’s out there, and not actually planning on meeting someone or doing anything. He’s still window shopping, that says enough for me to gtho
I came here to say, based on your title, do whatever you want to do re: staying friends.
Then I started to read the body of your post, and I agree, you're exhausting.
I'm not saying this to be mean. Think about the expectations and demands you put on other people. Consider this reply as an additional piece of data as you try to figure out life.
This is incredibly short sighted IMHO. You've been together for a blink of an eye and now you want to enter into a 20+ year legal and financial contract.
Keep paying him rent but make sure you aren't being taken advantage of. It's his responsibility to do the maintenance, any taxes etc. You split utilities and you pay market rent.
Make sure you have a nest egg, should you need to leave.
For the second part, all I’m doing is I’m trying to provide him with some outside perspective. I’m rly not posting this for drama, so sorry if that’s how it’s coming across, I’m only trying to ask for assistance in explaining the consequences and the next steps for a friend who is being abused and is in a toxic relationship. I’m mentally unwell as well as autistic so I find these conversations difficult to navigate, I just figured some advice on the matter would help! Your comment was rly helpful in putting a neutral point of view forward for perspective 🙂
You’re imagination is taking you a bit too far here. Her boyfriend would be there, as she suggested and wants.
Even if he was just looking around and just curious as to what’s out there, and not actually planning on meeting someone or doing anything. He’s still window shopping, that says enough for me to gtho
And hers is very large
Hes trying to have his cake and eat it to. Do not let this guy cheat with you, both you and his gf deserve better.
Pee Diddy and Caresha ??
I came here to say, based on your title, do whatever you want to do re: staying friends.
Then I started to read the body of your post, and I agree, you're exhausting.
I'm not saying this to be mean. Think about the expectations and demands you put on other people. Consider this reply as an additional piece of data as you try to figure out life.
So be honest with her about where your feelings are at. Trying to hide this from her isn't going to make this any better.
This is incredibly short sighted IMHO. You've been together for a blink of an eye and now you want to enter into a 20+ year legal and financial contract.
Keep paying him rent but make sure you aren't being taken advantage of. It's his responsibility to do the maintenance, any taxes etc. You split utilities and you pay market rent.
Make sure you have a nest egg, should you need to leave.
Thank you for the first part of your comment.
For the second part, all I’m doing is I’m trying to provide him with some outside perspective. I’m rly not posting this for drama, so sorry if that’s how it’s coming across, I’m only trying to ask for assistance in explaining the consequences and the next steps for a friend who is being abused and is in a toxic relationship. I’m mentally unwell as well as autistic so I find these conversations difficult to navigate, I just figured some advice on the matter would help! Your comment was rly helpful in putting a neutral point of view forward for perspective 🙂