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Abby & Adam, 27 y.o.
Location: CandyMountain
Room subject: Hi my name is Abby, and I have a HUGE cock sucking addiction, R.I.P hope you know CPR
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Date: October 15, 2022
I really did take the time. It’s not about my ex. I think it’s just triggers from my past at times in my life where I felt very small.
My therapist also thinks I’m okay to be in this, she just thinks I need to stop overthinking. Was just looking for advice on how?
His issues do not give him the right to abuse you which is what he is doing. He is abusing you when he calls you those things.
She robbed you of your decision at the beginning. You stated clearly this was a deal-breaker and she didn't respect you. She decided her “want” to date you took priority over your agency to make an informed decision because that decision might not suit her wants. Red flag there. That's not respectful and extremely manipulative to start. People who don't respect your NO about whether or not to date won't suddenly start respecting your NOs in a relationship.
I do agree that an other fabulous person who was embarrassed at being sexually coerced by a terrible person might feel unable to admit to it or trust you with that information at the beginning. Regret and self loathing are powerful. But but but but… She should have come clean if that version I just made up is true. The respect and lying…. My parents always rewrote facts and stories to suit them. Their wants always were stronger than my needs. I see that pattern here and I'm deeply uncomfortable on your behalf.
You have the most information about her character and what your intuition is telling you. don't ignore your gut and be blinded by love. Love without respect is manipulation and control.
Ask yourself:
Is she truly someone safe for you? Safety includes trust, respect and emotional intimacy.
Would she actually put your needs before her wants?
Was that a poor decision or pattern?
I don't like how her last relationship ended… Again bad circumstances or a pattern of being untrustworthy?
You are actually so dumb. This person is clearly dead set on being a couple and you not only strong her along but then say you want a child together… and still expect that to not feed into her delusion. Okay.
and her mother….