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KayCarterr1 Public Chat Channel
Date: October 14, 2022
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KayCarterr1 Public Chat Channel
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But but but if you throw out that thing from six years ago you're practically guaranteed to need it within two weeks!!
Oh, if it's just 3-4 times a month, this seems very reasonable to me. You've told him you'd like to come with him, but this is his time without you. You'll simply need to learn to respect that.
Also: STOP asking if you can come with him. He knows you want to come with him and he'll invite you if he wants you there.
Plan some weekend events that DON'T conflict with this time with his friends. Don't try to plan an event that will force him to choose between you and his friends; that would be a really toxic move. But you can plan events earlier in the day on a weekend, for example, if he mostly goes out with them at night.
Would you really expect him to tell you that? I understand you being concerned that he will do the same to you, but I can't imagine anyone telling someone new that about themselves. Seems like you're more upset he wasn't truthful than that he might hurt you. Please take care of yourself.
Taking your recently deleted comments into consideration, do you want honest female opinions so you have material for your spanker banker?
Understood but it wouldn’t be unusual for the BF to have those fears. Fore warned is fore armed. Thanks for your excellent point.
“advice for moving to another state for a relationship”
This is the best advice that you are going to get, DON'T DO IT!!!
“I cant cut her off” why? Theres ssomeone pointing a gente to you? lol
I didn’t read any contradictions. I think it sounds like this person is trying to subconsciously recreate some past trauma and that she has not gotten over her ex. I’m sorry to say that if you feel this way now I can only imagine how you will be a target for her unconscious projections.
You are deserving of some one who introduces you to their family. You deserve to not have your words used against you. As a person who grew up with impossible people to please I sense you are also perhaps unconsciously trying to please a parent that maybe neglected your need’s during your formative years.
I think the fight invalidates the prize. I would thank her for her time and move on and wish her well because ( and I say this sincerely ) you deserve better.