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Date: October 13, 2022
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Wow. Sounds like he could use some counseling bc his sense of masculinity is seriously causing issues here that I don't think anyone other than him will be able to confront..
I love that last paragraph!
Yeah, you're not in the wrong here. I can't fathom why anyone would do something like that beyond immaturity. Even intoxication wouldn't bring about that kind of behavior in front of someone you supposedly like. Yeah, I don't get it. I'm sorry OP
She is not disclosing her accounts 'cause she doesn't want you to know how deep a hole she has dug. The fact she is not disclosing her finances should have been a deal breaker from the start. If you split up, you have to give her half of your savings while you get half of her debt.
In marriage, there is no “mine”. There is only “ours”. She is hiding things. Just the hidden items means she is continuously lying to you about her debt, to your face, without even getting into her out of control spending. Why do you accept this? 'Cause you have taught her that she can do what she wants and you will only whine about it. She is not trustworthy and trust is essential to any healthy relationship. Personally, I'd already be gone.
If you are going to try to make this work, you need full disclosure of her finances or you walk. It is ultimatum time and you need to stick to your guns. Only with full disclosure, you can make informed decisions. And then ask her what her plan was to get out of the financial hole. She needs to go on an allowance. Of course she will refuse. She is putting you both permanently in the poor house.
I think you should leave her mom out of it and just focus on what is happening between the two of you.
“Babe, I love you and want you to be happy. When you expect a lot of praise and validation for basic adulting like vacuuming or organizing your closet, I feel frustrated and frankly annoyed because to me, it’s just basic responsibility stuff, not a grand achievement. It’s kind of exhausting to be expected to give out a “participation award” for every little thing that’s just basic adulting.”