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Lillie, 18 y.o.
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Date: October 13, 2022
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I have some tips you could try;
Keep reminding yourself that the only person you are in control of is yourself.
And don't just say it, practice it. For example, next time your boyfriend doesn't follow through with what he tells you, don't say anything to him about it. Remind yourself that he is free to make his own decisions about how he spends his time.
I think sometimes we end up trying to control our partners because we are overvaluing the relationship. We hold on too tight because we are terrified the whole thing will capsize otherwise.
For you to be able to take a step back from control, you need to be able to say “If we ever break up one day, I'm going to be ok.” You have to accept that that's an outcome that could happen and that it wouldn't be the end of your world.
Your behaviour is not happening in a vacuum. It must be frustrating to think you're on the same page, or you're in the loop about something and then have him turn around and do something else.
It's probably causing you some anxiety, because this kind of behaviour makes you wonder. Is he the kind of guy who can commit to things? Does he take anything seriously? Maybe he isn't really interested in the gym, but then why can't he just say so? Is he hiding some parts of himself from me?
These are all valid questions, don't brush them aside by trying to push him to follow through or meet his goals, etc. Let things flow naturally so you can see the real him, and make the best decision for yourself about how much you're investing in the relationship.
Your boyfriend is also playing a part in this dynamic. Don't carry all the blame/responsibility on your back! Forgive yourself.
Not everyone watches po rn. I don't and I wouldn't be into someone who watches it either. Basically feels like the guy is cheating on you by ogling and getting off to another woman or some dude fucking a woman. It's not hot.
She is sleeping lol how do you suppose she controls that? You fart in your sleep as well. Just get a wax warmer or an oil diffuser.
The problem is the age gap, there is not a big enough age gap, you need to find a man in his fifties who’s kids are already grown up who have their dogs in their houses and not his.