I would also add that no one here has properly evaluated and diagnosed OP's gf for her weight gain, which could stem from a combination of factors. Stress, anxiety, alcohol, lack of exercise, maybe not the best diet, getting older, environmental factors, and any other hormonal issues could be suspect here.
Yeah I am with your gf here. I would drop you like very hot garbage.
So you flirt with this friend, give her compliments (the word is mentioned atleast 5 times in the post), talk to her late into the night, make her your ‘online Valentine’ whatever that is, (from what I understand) spend the evening with Jane in GTA, and apologize to her for not sending her flowers while eating the takeout your gf sent you? And then this girl is badmouthing you to your gf once they connect? (I wonder what Jane’s side of the story is)
And you don’t see what’s wrong here? Ok
I mean it’s harmless
Stop trying to minimize your sleezy behaviour by calling it harmless. Clearly it’s harmful, your gf is not ok with it and left you take a hint
It’s not unusual to be valentines with a friend live is it?
It’s incredibly uncommon and cringey. I have never heard of a person in a relationship having another valentine, live! or otherwise
it was just me being myself and laying video games
Then stay single and be yourself alone because no woman would put up with this nonsense, not even Jane who’s talking shit about you to your gf. Stop portraying your creepy behaviour as ‘we are gamers’ because gamers aren’t douchebags like you.
am I a cheater?
In my and your gf’s opinion, yes.
is it possible to get past things and move o
Yes, move on alone with your life. Leave your ex alone. She doesn’t deserve this shit
Yes, yes you should. In fact you should have done it earlier. In what world do you stay in relationship with someone being fine with his family treating his partner (you) like that.
In fact you should not move wuth him to his country, even if it is different city. If he is serious about you, it is high time he made the decision, what is the priority in his life.
I would also add that no one here has properly evaluated and diagnosed OP's gf for her weight gain, which could stem from a combination of factors. Stress, anxiety, alcohol, lack of exercise, maybe not the best diet, getting older, environmental factors, and any other hormonal issues could be suspect here.
getting hitched to a salon worker so young…
Yeah I am with your gf here. I would drop you like very hot garbage.
So you flirt with this friend, give her compliments (the word is mentioned atleast 5 times in the post), talk to her late into the night, make her your ‘online Valentine’ whatever that is, (from what I understand) spend the evening with Jane in GTA, and apologize to her for not sending her flowers while eating the takeout your gf sent you? And then this girl is badmouthing you to your gf once they connect? (I wonder what Jane’s side of the story is)
And you don’t see what’s wrong here? Ok
I mean it’s harmless
Stop trying to minimize your sleezy behaviour by calling it harmless. Clearly it’s harmful, your gf is not ok with it and left you take a hint
It’s not unusual to be valentines with a friend live is it?
It’s incredibly uncommon and cringey. I have never heard of a person in a relationship having another valentine, live! or otherwise
it was just me being myself and laying video games
Then stay single and be yourself alone because no woman would put up with this nonsense, not even Jane who’s talking shit about you to your gf. Stop portraying your creepy behaviour as ‘we are gamers’ because gamers aren’t douchebags like you.
am I a cheater?
In my and your gf’s opinion, yes.
is it possible to get past things and move o
Yes, move on alone with your life. Leave your ex alone. She doesn’t deserve this shit
Yes, yes you should. In fact you should have done it earlier. In what world do you stay in relationship with someone being fine with his family treating his partner (you) like that.
In fact you should not move wuth him to his country, even if it is different city. If he is serious about you, it is high time he made the decision, what is the priority in his life.
If you can't trust her, your relationship is fucked.