Lol this is like my wife. We had been talking exclusively for over two months, hung out every weekend and went on a bunch of dates including a second date to a far to fancy/romantic restaurant. In my mind she was my girlfriend. At a Christmas party her friend cornered me and asked when are you going to ask her to be your gf. I was flabbergasted and go I thought she was my gf! Needless to say I asked her later that night lol
Yeah bro. You’re orbiting in the friend zone. Just stop. It’s super bad and cringeworthy that you’re acting like she owes you something, and orbiting is just…sad.
On the other hand, she owes you nothing, but she’s also using your lack of self awareness to keep you in orbit. You’re reacting to a chance at a relationship you never really had, but she strung you along for, and used you as her emotional baggage holder.
Why aren't you also considering the possibility that she merely got confused about timing? She said this happened at 12am but you found out it was 11:30pm. That's a difference of only 30 minutes.
Sorry, I find it extremely odd that you literally asked your landlord for video footage.
Also, you said the guy was “a little touchy with her.” How so?
Opinions CAN be incorrect. It's why there called opinions. If you're one of those people who ignores facts because they disagree with your opinion you have a problem.
Why do you think? Lol
*He said he’d be disappointed in me if I went*
Lol. This is crap that your parents would say to you. Guilt tripping you is not a positive sign, Op.
You: I signed on to take a class in x!
Him: If you take that class, you will know more about x than I do. Go ahead and take the class, but I will be disappointed in you.
You: K! I'll be taking my class on Monday and Wednesday! See ya!
Lol.
1: a gift is a gift and not shared expenses, just means you paid for part of your gift
2: get a side job to pay for it.
3: please point out that you could be going in worse directions in life than a hobby!!
Ghost her
Lol this is like my wife. We had been talking exclusively for over two months, hung out every weekend and went on a bunch of dates including a second date to a far to fancy/romantic restaurant. In my mind she was my girlfriend. At a Christmas party her friend cornered me and asked when are you going to ask her to be your gf. I was flabbergasted and go I thought she was my gf! Needless to say I asked her later that night lol
Yeah bro. You’re orbiting in the friend zone. Just stop. It’s super bad and cringeworthy that you’re acting like she owes you something, and orbiting is just…sad.
On the other hand, she owes you nothing, but she’s also using your lack of self awareness to keep you in orbit. You’re reacting to a chance at a relationship you never really had, but she strung you along for, and used you as her emotional baggage holder.
Just get out.
Why aren't you also considering the possibility that she merely got confused about timing? She said this happened at 12am but you found out it was 11:30pm. That's a difference of only 30 minutes.
Sorry, I find it extremely odd that you literally asked your landlord for video footage.
Also, you said the guy was “a little touchy with her.” How so?
Opinions CAN be incorrect. It's why there called opinions. If you're one of those people who ignores facts because they disagree with your opinion you have a problem.
Buy a pregnancy test and ask her to take it. If she refuses, she lied.