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It’s never crossed his mind to say it means he doesn’t feel it. Even if this is his first relationship and he is inexperienced in love, I would think after a year he would know the extent of how he feels for you. You can’t wait around and hope for someone to change and be somebody that they’re not. It sounds to me like you’re tired of initiating everything in the relationship, and I don’t blame you because it sounds like if you hadn’t you would have never been together in the first place. It seems to me like he’s just going along with whatever you will, which isn’t right because it’s supposed to be a mutual partnership. It’s time to move on and find someone that will reciprocate love to you.
This is tricky. You said it was regular for one of you to be uncomfortable that people were downstairs. Then, continue anyway. So, I could see how even if you were sober, to proceed because of pretext. But even if it were a regular thing, she can still revoke consent. There’s a lot of context missing, which could be that you hammered and don’t remember much. People are saying she stayed she was uncomfortable and you just breezed past it. It’s rape. But We really don’t know what happened after she said she was uncomfortable to say it was rape. We don’t know if you actually breeze past her saying that. Did you guys stop and then proceed after some time? Who initiated intimacy after her stating she was uncomfortable? There’s context missing to say it was rape. Personally, I wouldn’t meet up with her. If you do, I would ask if she’s comfortable telling you more details of what happened that night and say sorry.
Your husband needs to take stock of how much both of your lives have changed since children. And consider that it sounds like your life specifically has changed far more than his. First and foremost you need to let him suck it up when you leave the house alone. You're a human being allowed to have agency outside of your relationship and children. No one is trying to minimize his very hot work, but it's odd how in effort to not minimize his work yours gets minimized. When he leaves work he's done it sounds like for the day and on the weekends. You aren't. you're essentially on call at least while your kids are awake at all times. how would he respond to that if that was on him? Its not about finding hobbies it's about him helping in the ways you are asking to be helped. He needs to understand that.
Is it possible for you to look into part-time work. I know you mentioned childcare is difficult in your situation, and I don't blame you being selective in who watches your kids. But find ways and reasons to leave the house alone and let him watch his children. he is their father, he signed up for childcare when he got you pregnant.
Definitely seems like the most logical solution that’s for sure. Just feels like I’ll be giving up and letting her get away. But I’ve been trying to do that. I’m sure it won’t get easier but hopefully it works itself out. Thanks for taking the time.
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I saw your post history Op, he’s cheated on many times in the 2.5 years together.
He’s a serial cheater.
He’s never going to stop cheating.
The fact he bitched about you to an ex? That is a MAJOR red flag!
Love = safe
You don’t feel safe with him, because its not love. It’s dysfunctional codependency where two people won’t let each other go because they don’t want to be single again after putting all this work in after 2.5 years. You resent him at the core of it too.
It doesn’t matter how much time is invested, what matters is do you want to deal with this for the next year? Five years? 10 years?
Do you want to keep snooping and feeling upset everyday?
Do you want to keep arguing about whose he’s cheated with?
Do you want to never feel safe?
Do you want to hold onto someone who never cares enough about you to change?
This person doesn’t care about you or they wouldn’t do this to you.
They are selfish, disrespectful, not kind, not caring, have never been honesty to your face, and not trust worthy.
I’m 35 Op, four out of my nine ex’s cheated on me. Trust me, it’s not worth it. Let this guy go. You deserve someone who actually values you, your time, attention, who wouldn’t cheat, who actually cares about building trust, whose open and honest, that actually respects you!!!
I don’t think she lied. I think it’s finally hit that she’s nearly 40 and he change to have a child is fast running out. She held the same thought for over 8 years. That’s not a lie that can be held easily for nearly a decade
It sometimes makes financial sense. My partner and I bought a house this year after 8 years together, not married yet. Housing prices in our city were rising 30% YOY so we had to save every single penny toward the down payment for years in order to not be priced out of living where our jobs are. Had zero extra money to put toward something frivolous like a wedding.
Now that we own our house and can finally unclench a bit my partner has already an engagement ring savings account going with a good amount in there.
Do any of these sound like unfair things to ask him to do? – Don’t touch or use my stuff without asking – Don’t invite anyone round who doesn’t respect me (his best friend is horrible about me) – Don’t dominate spaces E.g. you’re not more entitled to storage space – we’re equals – Don’t snoop through my stuff without me knowing – Respect the house E.g. don’t get hair dye on things (he always does this at his house) so just to take care – Don’t dominate when it comes to decisions about room decor and furniture etc – we should both pick – Respect my personal space and privacy
To answer OPs question, No, but………..
I'll “generously” give this coupling 6 months…….?
This may come as a surprise, and may even seem like a lie, but there are partners out there who will actually try not to treat you like shit, and might never treat you like shit. You might argue, but they won't treat you like shit.
I think we've normalized divorce to not even need that.
I was with a girl for almost 3 years in my 20s. She told me the same BS, I told her it was all or nothing. I got nothing and eventually went on to on-line the most incredible life. Let her go, if you beg and plead with her it will make you look weak in her eyes. Ask me how I know.
I was crushed for about 8 months or so and went on to meet my wife 12 months later. I know it’s very hot man but it’s what it’s what’s needed here. Sorry.
You have to get a life and do things so you're not thinking about her all the time. Remember that she is a human too and can not be texting you back every second. Get busy with things and you'll also have more to share with her when you do hang out.
You have to get a life and do things so you're not thinking about her all the time. Remember that she is a human too and can not be texting you back every second. Get busy with things and you'll also have more to share with her when you do hang out.
You have to get a life and do things so you're not thinking about her all the time. Remember that she is a human too and can not be texting you back every second. Get busy with things and you'll also have more to share with her when you do hang out.
Defo not overanalysing it. She’s totally out of order. Has he totally cut contact with her now?
In case of divorce or anything it's better your name and your name only is on the house.
She wasn't asking to be put on the fucking mortgage, she is saying “Hey, you couldn't have asked for my opinion?” Inviting her along to the showings and getting her opinions would not entitle her to the house, and nor would it have hurt OP to find a house that they could both like.
You have to tell your GF – this is something she absolutely must know. You also need to go to the police and report this. I wouldn’t trust either of these guys to have deleted anything.
Bed sharing used to be way more normal actually
You’ve given me some harsh but needed advice there. Thank you, I needed to hear that.
Never ask for something you're not even sure you want. But things like kissing and conveying feelings of affection are supposed to come before labeling the relationship. If you haven't even been physical you couldn't possibly know if this is someone you're compatible with.
Serious question. How should they have handled it?
Indifuckingvidually? I know that if I was attracted to my wife's friend (shit like that happens), I would keep it to myself. I wouldn't go out of my way to spend more time with them and getting to the point of sharing your attraction with each other and come up with a plan to blindside my wife and tell her how bad we want to fuck.
If I was dumb enough to do that, and my wife ran away crying and moved out for three weeks, I wouldn't immediately be like 'Yay! I am doing this right away” the minute she said fuck it and came home.
Assuming we don't live in a world where people are not allowed to be sexually attracted to anyone other than their SO.
That's the thing; everyone will find others attractive. When you are in a 10 years monogamous relationship with two kids though, you definitely ignore your attraction and move on. It's called fucking commitment. You know, like the one they shared for ten years.
You do not mention it or pursue it. Or you get divorced and have all of the pussy or dick you like.
People have no business telling you it is fake. Any decent person who thought you were lying would just move on and not reply. They should not feel the need to “call you out” and if they do, they should probably keep that to themselves. Besides, this doesn't seem unusual. Unless they were thinking that a woman wouldn't agree to this. I don't know, that seems a bit sexist to me.
So assuming this is real.
I think like a lot of fantasy, it is one thing to fantasize about something, we all do that, but it is an entirely different thing to do it in real life. Fantasizing is safe because it is fantasy, but once it is reality and you are on board then the real life questions are very hot to ignore. Fear and anger often accompany issues, even ones that were mutually agreed to, like threesomes, orgies and open relationships once the reality hits.
There are questions like “Why doesn't she care?” Will she use this as an out?” If she really loved me wouldn't she be more jealous? Sometimes these questions are just insecurity and paranoia and sometimes they are not. I think this is a normal response and you should talk to him about it before they go through with it. If he is really feeling upset then address it and you may both decide this is not a good idea, and that's ok.
But it’s already opened. And it was only opened because HE wanted to fuck around and he has become a no now because HE wants that.
What happens next time he finds someone he wants to fuck?
The relationship was opened with two yeses. And now selfish dude is being selfish again. Shouldn’t it be that any major change in how the relationship is defined should be two yeses and therefore this change can’t be coerced either?
Did Sara ever indicate she was even hungry? He just sounds gross. It’s one thing to harass friends or acquaintances like that… but coworkers!?
If I could, I would. I don't have $20 to my name, let alone $100. My husband controls the finances.
If an action causes you to bust a nut, it is sexual. ?♀️
Leave him the hell alone
Realize your best friend would gladly use you.
Would a non family member consider that offer acceptable? Aren friends supposed to get better offers, not worse?
She is totally gaslighting you.
I'll take you on a date. you can turn your location on and we'll on-line happily ever after!