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Pinkkitty, 24 y.o.
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Date: October 12, 2022
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Yeah, no.
100% with you on this one.
A label means nothing. Comparing yourself to others and what they're doing, means nothing.
You two need to eliminate the distance and spend a while together before considering the marriage knot (sorry this it the adult in me talking).
Neither of you are really set up for a future. Idealistically, you should have all the pieces in place before considering that step.
Otherwise, you're just adding all these complications into your reletionship that you need to manage. Eliminate the complications and have security first, not the other way around.
As for the LDR, you need to close that gap and introduce each-other into your day to day life. A lot of relationships sound good on paper, but until you go through with them full-time, you will never get the full picture of them.
Regardless, you feel like you're not ready, that is all you worry about here:
I think we aren’t ready yet
This:
She’s so keen on getting a ring because she sees all of her classmates with one
Is not a viable reason to take that step. That is not paying attention to your own reletionship and what you two need to do. That is comparing yourself to others and having the same expectations. Never do that.
What this ultimately comes down to is whether or not you feel respected and cherished in the relationship. Your other posts paint a pretty grim picture of your partner as you have talked about fears that he's cheating on you with an ex, a lack of support after receiving an abortion (for a pregnancy caused by sex with him), and mention that you feel that he's gaslighting and manipulating you.
This does not sound like a healthy relationship. Right now you're trying to justify leaving him and ultimately the reason is right there: he does not respect or cherish you. You are all the reason you need to leave a relationship. You only get one you. The world only gets one you. You are worthy of love and all the good things in the world. He had chances and blew them. You don't need to keep him around.
Drop him and start a romance with yourself. That sounds silly, I know, but it's not. Take yourself out on dates, pamper yourself. It doesn't have to be expensive or even cost money. Tell yourself you are awesome and that you love yourself. Sing yourself songs you like. Watch videos that make you happy. You're worth it. You deserve it.
Now here is your problem
You know about this affair from AP not from her
What you don't know is how many others there have been , or how many random hookups
She isn't going to confess about those because you don't know about those
All you know is she is good at keeping secrets.