I can’t shower at night because showers wake me up and then I can’t sleep. I shower in the morning because it wakes me up. She can shower when she wants
No it hasn't, she's a great mother it's just not working out between us. Either way, since our schedules collide more than likely I'll be keeping him most of the day since I take our son to school and I'll be moving into my parents for a while
Can you have a standard? Not even standards, just like.. one fucking standard? Please? Just one. Just have a single standard for you who date. This can be the standard. Like not having a sexual relationship with a dog is a perfectly reasonable standard to set.
Was going to say this, my girlfriend and I have trauma and neither of us believe anything like OP's wife, in fact we are botg quite skeptical and like to know facts about things. Plenty of traumatized people have distorted beliefs because if their trauma, especially victims of abusive religions or cults, but from what (little) we know of ex-gfs past, it doesn't seem like her trauma would be the root of her current beliefs.
Tbh, you know your gf best, and I would definitely recommend trying to talk to her about it unless you really think she wants to be surprised… Did she love the ring and is she wearing it now? Do you think she would want a new ring? If she wasn't thrilled with the first proposal but nonetheless still said yes and wanted to get married to you, and you're planning on redoing the proposal… personally, I think it makes sense to get a new ring, because you want to do everything new again. Plus I think it might be awkward to ask her for the ring back to redo the proposal, but obviously this is dependent on your relationship and what you think she wants! I don't think she would say no to two rings, but I don't know her! (Although my dad got my mom two rings, i thought that was quite audacious of my mom when i found out but they're still together ?)
ETA OF ITS NOT THE SAME PERSON … I apologize:)
You accept that it isn't about how her nose makes you feel, it's about how it makes her feel.
I can’t shower at night because showers wake me up and then I can’t sleep. I shower in the morning because it wakes me up. She can shower when she wants
Haha you’re so funny.
Then try harder. You think you're being a gentleman but what you're actually being is a misogynist.
No it hasn't, she's a great mother it's just not working out between us. Either way, since our schedules collide more than likely I'll be keeping him most of the day since I take our son to school and I'll be moving into my parents for a while
Can you have a standard? Not even standards, just like.. one fucking standard? Please? Just one. Just have a single standard for you who date. This can be the standard. Like not having a sexual relationship with a dog is a perfectly reasonable standard to set.
And yet, here you are. Wondering what to do.
Well, the storm may be bad, but I think the sun is coming out for you. Leave him behind.
Was going to say this, my girlfriend and I have trauma and neither of us believe anything like OP's wife, in fact we are botg quite skeptical and like to know facts about things. Plenty of traumatized people have distorted beliefs because if their trauma, especially victims of abusive religions or cults, but from what (little) we know of ex-gfs past, it doesn't seem like her trauma would be the root of her current beliefs.
G I R L… from your replies from your past post, this man was a walking red flag & you turned a blind eye.
Tbh, you know your gf best, and I would definitely recommend trying to talk to her about it unless you really think she wants to be surprised… Did she love the ring and is she wearing it now? Do you think she would want a new ring? If she wasn't thrilled with the first proposal but nonetheless still said yes and wanted to get married to you, and you're planning on redoing the proposal… personally, I think it makes sense to get a new ring, because you want to do everything new again. Plus I think it might be awkward to ask her for the ring back to redo the proposal, but obviously this is dependent on your relationship and what you think she wants! I don't think she would say no to two rings, but I don't know her! (Although my dad got my mom two rings, i thought that was quite audacious of my mom when i found out but they're still together ?)