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Date: October 12, 2022
It’s not about what’s the easy thing to do. It’s about what’s the right thing to do.
He’s not in an abusive relationship he’s free to break up with her now, he just wants to string her along for six extra months because it’s more convenient that way. Does that sound right to you?
OP you have been through a tough experience and I really feel for you and wish you the best. While my first serious relationship didn’t last nearly as long, I had also resented friends who I believed had been meddling. I was heartbroken and mourned the end of the relationship, and really couldn’t wind up being her friend afterwards.
Many years later, I’m grateful for the relationship from start to end, and for sharing special times and memories with her. Ultimately I hope the best for her and know she would feel the same for me. She was uncertain and had every right to end our relationship, just as is the case now. It may be she needs this broken-hearted end to realize her best self, and that you need the same. It’s not anyone’s place to judge her decisions and feelings, nor should yours be judged. You have to explore life as it is, as messy as it is. The damage may be too great between you both to start again together, and it’s wise to take time apart to reflect. But you can each get through this and have healthy, wonderful relationships, forged in the pain you both feel today.
Yes, I've tried to explain that the cat isn't going to just become a part of his family because she's in his home. No, he's likely to consider her an interloper.
My dog is really well-trained so I think in her mind, it's a training issue I'm unwilling to undertake, or that I'm overblowing what might happen. He doesn't chase animals and has never shown any aggression so she thinks it'll be fine, and because she's not a dog person I think she doesn't really get what prey drive is. No amount of training can correct that.
In her defense, I am a worst-case-scenario kind of gal, but when a person or animal could die, I don't think that's the wrong way to be.
If you’ve been together for 12 years, but this extreme behaviour only occurred in the last two, have you considered a cause for the behaviour? I believe other users suggested mental health issues, a brain tumour, etc.
You obviously don’t have to stick around to be abused. But I’m just wondering about the cause. Though abusers often mask for some time, it’s usually not as long as a decade. Such a sudden change in behaviour might hint at something deeper.
In the meantime I’m worried about your son being exposed to all this.
Even if she is pretending, distance yourself. It’s not a healthy thing to threaten, serious or not. If you’re genuinely concerned, report it.
I had a girlfriend threaten it after a breakup then tried and failed (painkillers). My family doctor gave me advice that those who do actually try (not a plea for help or attention) eventually succeed. Her advice was to distance myself asap.
She was right. The girl eventually lulled herself years later. Had continually tried for years when she had another partner. He then left her and she killed herself slowly with Tylenol.
My number was on a piece of paper she had left out. Her roommate called me. I wailed like a baby. She was a beautiful person but had too many psychological issues for a healthy relationship. I still love her to this day, but I’m glad I wasn’t in a relationship with her anymore because she wasn’t emotionally capable or healthy enough for one.
Harsh for being annoyed that you’re implying she’s fucking her uncle? Because you know that’s what you’re doing. The only inappropriate thing here is you
Thank you. Should I be open with each of them (even if they don't ask), about the other relationships? There may come a point where I want a primary relationship with one of them (right now it's probably with the 39 y/o web designer). We could, for example, agree to let each other see others as long as we consider each other the main partner.
I wasn’t expecting his response to be that.