I thought exactly this. If he would've wanted to show her how he has got better, he wouldn't have done something as sociopathic as waiting for her to be pregnant and 20 weeks at that, to tell her this important fact. Tbh, if it was me, I would be looking to go to a place where they allow abortions at this stage and get one. Im not saying op should do this, but I would.
There was this girl I talked to who was super happy, had a lot of my same interests, even sexually compatible, but I told her I don't want any strings attached to it because I thought I liked this other girl. But now I feel like I should've told the girl I “like” what I told to the other girl. I just don't have the heart to go back on everything I told her and I just feel stuck now.
You don’t have to compromise on this issue. You simply don’t get a say in this. You’ve explained that you don’t find it attractive, but it’s her body and she gets to decide what to do with it. If she gets tattoos, you will have to live with it, or end the relationship with her if you end up losing interest as a result.
She isn’t to blame. If you can’t control your actions when drunk, then don’t drink.
No one told you to be in your undergarments with another man while he holds your chest. That’s on you, even if you don’t remember it. Your actions of getting pissed drunk led to that point.
Thank you 🙂
I thought exactly this. If he would've wanted to show her how he has got better, he wouldn't have done something as sociopathic as waiting for her to be pregnant and 20 weeks at that, to tell her this important fact. Tbh, if it was me, I would be looking to go to a place where they allow abortions at this stage and get one. Im not saying op should do this, but I would.
There was this girl I talked to who was super happy, had a lot of my same interests, even sexually compatible, but I told her I don't want any strings attached to it because I thought I liked this other girl. But now I feel like I should've told the girl I “like” what I told to the other girl. I just don't have the heart to go back on everything I told her and I just feel stuck now.
You don’t have to compromise on this issue. You simply don’t get a say in this. You’ve explained that you don’t find it attractive, but it’s her body and she gets to decide what to do with it. If she gets tattoos, you will have to live with it, or end the relationship with her if you end up losing interest as a result.
Tough for him to stand up for you when he didn’t hear the joke.
I don’t care how drunk the brother was. Racist is racist. Bizarre that you make excuses for him.
Are you serious?
She isn’t to blame. If you can’t control your actions when drunk, then don’t drink.
No one told you to be in your undergarments with another man while he holds your chest. That’s on you, even if you don’t remember it. Your actions of getting pissed drunk led to that point.
It is not her fault. It is YOURS.
If you could barely keep your head up you were too intoxicated to give your consent
Nicotine is the worst!!! I fortunately had a life altering surgery that really opened my eyes to how good or bad life can be.
Ouch but I get what you’re saying.