If you truly feel like you love this man, then what your family has to say shouldn’t matter. It’s your life. I don’t think your family will simply reject you, even if it ends badly in the future. If they did then they never really loved you in the first place.
This is one of those stupid things I wouldn't worry about. Yes he is an idiot for saying it, but its not going to happen. If he ever mentions it again just tell him you are not sharing his dick with anyone
His GP is not going to diagnose a brain tumor. He’d have to go get an MRI or CT and have a consult with a radiologist. The radiologist will write up their findings. If your BF wants to share those results with you, he can.
Yes, it's definitely better to be realistic. I know he's not the brightest person I've ever met, but I find it difficult to associate brightness and communication. I feel like one doesn't have to be smart to have their own thoughts and feelings and be willing to share them. Even if it's not in the most eloquent or sophisticated way. I can see how it helps, but he should still have thoughts?
Thanks for the book recommendation! I'll look into it.
Meaning it took me legit a whole while before i slept with my husband who was my then bf as i insisted on getting to know him as a person first and see how he was really before getting intimate with him. Also to kinda see if the relationship dynamic would work when i wasn't just putting out and if he actually cared about me not jst sex… i digress bt jst for context basically im a very traditional woman.
This isn't normal.. for 2 years?
U are the one constantly having to in essence “pay” her to spend time with u through some form of entertainment and dining and then she gives u minimal attention and sometimes ur “lucky” enough to get intimacy with her but other than that she spares no thought to ur relationship?
U sound more like a hookup than a bf sir.
Have u guys said i love u? Does she tell u she loves u? Does she show u any affection and support in terms of just caring about what's going on in ur life and ur general well-being? When you aren't taking her out on your dime does she ever plan anything for the two of u to do? Ie myself when we were broke students would plan indoor movie dates and jst cook for us so we cld watch movies and jst chill or go to a park and have a picnic. Nice things that don't require money if she's maybe broke bt means she actually is being thoughtful enough to do something sweet for u? Do you feel like you could in a crisis depend on her to be there for u in need? Death in the family or if you had an accident?
2 years is a long ass time to be together and if ur saying no to all of these.. my last question is just what are u getting out of this relationship you wouldn't be getting by literally just hiring an escort?
Seems like ud get more intimacy from a tinder hookup.
Im a single mom with 4 and 6 yo old boys. Everyone is fine. Breath..
If you truly feel like you love this man, then what your family has to say shouldn’t matter. It’s your life. I don’t think your family will simply reject you, even if it ends badly in the future. If they did then they never really loved you in the first place.
Just follow your heart 😉
Thank you so much
This is one of those stupid things I wouldn't worry about. Yes he is an idiot for saying it, but its not going to happen. If he ever mentions it again just tell him you are not sharing his dick with anyone
“Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved” – J. Cole
His GP is not going to diagnose a brain tumor. He’d have to go get an MRI or CT and have a consult with a radiologist. The radiologist will write up their findings. If your BF wants to share those results with you, he can.
Seriously, back off.
Yes, it's definitely better to be realistic. I know he's not the brightest person I've ever met, but I find it difficult to associate brightness and communication. I feel like one doesn't have to be smart to have their own thoughts and feelings and be willing to share them. Even if it's not in the most eloquent or sophisticated way. I can see how it helps, but he should still have thoughts?
Thanks for the book recommendation! I'll look into it.
Eh… old fashioned woman here..
Meaning it took me legit a whole while before i slept with my husband who was my then bf as i insisted on getting to know him as a person first and see how he was really before getting intimate with him. Also to kinda see if the relationship dynamic would work when i wasn't just putting out and if he actually cared about me not jst sex… i digress bt jst for context basically im a very traditional woman.
This isn't normal.. for 2 years?
U are the one constantly having to in essence “pay” her to spend time with u through some form of entertainment and dining and then she gives u minimal attention and sometimes ur “lucky” enough to get intimacy with her but other than that she spares no thought to ur relationship?
U sound more like a hookup than a bf sir.
Have u guys said i love u? Does she tell u she loves u? Does she show u any affection and support in terms of just caring about what's going on in ur life and ur general well-being? When you aren't taking her out on your dime does she ever plan anything for the two of u to do? Ie myself when we were broke students would plan indoor movie dates and jst cook for us so we cld watch movies and jst chill or go to a park and have a picnic. Nice things that don't require money if she's maybe broke bt means she actually is being thoughtful enough to do something sweet for u? Do you feel like you could in a crisis depend on her to be there for u in need? Death in the family or if you had an accident?
2 years is a long ass time to be together and if ur saying no to all of these.. my last question is just what are u getting out of this relationship you wouldn't be getting by literally just hiring an escort?
Seems like ud get more intimacy from a tinder hookup.