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Get naked [Multi Goal]
Date: October 11, 2022
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Get naked [Multi Goal]
It was all a façade for as long as you did what he wanted or at least didn’t openly defy him. When you found out about his affair, he knew the gig was up so the façade fell. You didn’t know before but you do know. If you allow him back into your life, you’re giving him tacit permission to do it again.
DO NOT GO BACK!!!
Keep the dad. Re-home the boyfriend. That's your dad. If you want him to come over once a month then your boyfriend can suck it up or leave. The first time someone told me I can't have my dad over to my own house, he would be out on his butt.
Whether it was Jessica Rabbit from the 80s or a new character from a new franchise, I think most of us had a sexual awakening from a cartoon, anime, video game etc. It's fun, but it's not real, don't go down the weeb or furry path.
You should tell your boyfriend you cheated on him and you can’t be trusted. Hopefully he’s got the brains to cut you loose.
This doesn’t really happen in relationships that are going well. She is telling you she feels distant. She cried because she feels guilty about this. The it’s me not you stuff is her letting you down easy.
Different scenario. We don't know the size/budget for the wedding. Also, a girlfriend is not the same as a spouse.
There is a reason she has no friends- she's not a good person. She hasn't spoken to you in a year, and it doesn't sound like you've met in person since you reconnected, but all of a sudden she wants you? When for 10 years she got to see you and talk to you and she didn't? She just wants to keep you around for the ego boost and attention, and she's willing to sabotage your life and happiness to keep it. Besides that, she is disrespecting your relationship. You need to cut contact, block her, and never talk to her again.
You need to complain about him to management/hr or both. Write down what he said (says), time and date and witnesses. Go when you have 3 or more items on the list. Be sure to say he makes you feel uncomfortable. Someone really obviously needs to sit him down and give him a warning. Any further inappropriate talk should result in his being fired. This is how any decently run company should operate but many don't. However the first step is always filing a formal (written) complaint with your boss and HR.
You need a therapist so you can learn how to be okay with being lonely and be okay with being alone. You sound like a desperate, sad 16 year old who just came off a breakup and thinks they'll never find love again.
This is going to be harsh, but honestly your determination to ignore literally every single problem is incredibly pathetic. You are exactly the kind of insecure, desperate woman that predators like your boyfriend look for.
Also his baby isn't even a year old. Infants don't know the difference. They don't actually say “where mama”. He's lying to you and you're falling for the bait like a dead fish.
Why do you want Lizzie single again? You know who’s shoulder she is going to cry on… your fiancée. I would make Lizzie my friend and keep a close eye on her. The more you make it an issue, the more it’s going to drive a wedge between you and your partner. Three is never a good number.
I think that’s an unspoken fear I have — I tell her and she thinks I am doing “drama” or “messiness” and just…keeps being friends with him. She knows the relationship went badly and I ended it, and she’s seen him several times since then to hang out. Me telling her would put her in an awful position.
Current gf might be emotional one. She has cried multiple times during sex and said it's because it's intense because of almost constant G-spot stimulation. That's also only in doggy style, no other position.
26 is a lot for display purposes. I would suggest that you both limit yourselves to ONE shelf each on a bookcase that can be used for your collections.
Yes.
I feel sorry for your son.
Yeah, I see your point. I guess the measurement of what is “acceptable” is what I'm uncertain of. Should it be identified based on what other people do? Or by what a doctor says? I'm just unsure
Maybe you're right. But I did spend the last couple of days reading about it, and it did put my mind at ease, a little. Also, I have paranoia and I literally fear everything, is that mean I shouldn't be with anyone because I'd put my fear into them?
I really don’t know, dude. I’m very conflicted about it. When she’s not asking that bullshit i’m very happy with her. We don’t really argue otherwise and we’ve had positive impacts on each other regarding getting our finances in order and improving our lifestyles to be healthier. It fucks me up because she’d be perfect for me otherwise.
Agreed.
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It also wouldn't be so playful if OP followed all these clever suggestions and ended up with teeth knocked out or jaw broken.
Granted, OP has not described any physical abuse from bf, which is a good thing. But no one knows what can happen to someone surprised, then angered, by a “playful” gesture.
Things are ok – until they're not.
She clearly cant handle stress and has a tendency towards callousness when she’s under pressure. It will not change because it’s a character trait. It’s up to you to decide what to do. To me , if the person I loved said that, it’s a deal breaker. That’s because I handle stress with calm and I have a rule that u never hurt those u love. I follow that diligently.
will it work if ovulation was almost probably happening during the past days
Get a sponsor and work the steps. Making amends isn’t until Step 9 & you need to give people their chance to be upset and feel their feelings.
People have different sex drives. Sex is really important for your wellbeing. Some don't need it but normal healthy person is to put it bluntly “horny”.
I think he also uses sex as overall “intimate” description. When you feel bad or not in the mood due to pain for example, you would not really like being intimate in any way.
Many years ago I felt attached to someone in my 20s who was much the same. I married him and had a kid, spent 8years barely staying afloat til I left him. 11yrs later and ive only just recovered from the financial mess he left me and fixed my credit ratings. You are young, please don't be a fool he won't change suddenly. He STOLE from you this isn't a minor thing its huge.
He spent years stuck at basic entry level in a government job (explains why he was never fired) that gave out promotions like candy
Id like to know this job of his.
As a 22 year old… that's a massive difference… one isn't done high-school yet and at 21 I had lived alone far from home for months at a time and was halfway through university…
Is this new behavior or has he always been like this?
If it’s new behavior, it may be that he’s depressed or has some other health issue.
If he’s always been this way, it’s likely that he’s an introvert and just needs downtime to recharge.
Or it could be that he just doesn’t enjoy those things or your friends.
I know that for me (44F), the last thing I want to do on a Friday night after a long week at work is to get cleaned up and go out. Saturday I usually spend half the day running errands and the other half doing my hobby. Sunday we usually visit the nursing home and that’s a half day thing. Then it’s prep for Monday and to bed by 8.
Usually on Friday night we have our date night at home and play a game, listen to music, have some drinks and chat. And we do go do an activity together once a month but it’s usually outdoors. I meet with friends maybe twice a month. But the weekends we go out Friday, have stuff Sat and Sunday? I’m just peopled out and feel like I haven’t had any rest. Did it last weekend and had fun but this week has been a struggle.
My point being that it may just be that this is the way he is. Maybe you could get him to agree to go once a month as a compromise? But if your friends are the reason you’re bothered, just tell them he needs some alone time.
He might be testing the waters.
It sounds like you guys have never been a good match and just got together too young. This will probably be for the best in the long run.
Then don't believe me..I am not trying to convince you to believe me..
You are 19. I know it doesn't feel like it yet- but you are (hopefully) going to be on earth for a very, very long time. If sex work is your true calling, you have plenty of time down the road to explore it.
For right now we are talking about a much older guy pimping you out into circumstances you have zero control over- including violence, being recorded, and men who do not respect your physical boundaries.
There are many other ways for you to keep your own physical agency and make money, and I encourage you to go those routes.