Since we aren’t inside the heads of each of these men, it’s impossible to tell exactly where and when the shift happened. Were they being dishonest? Just had a regular change of heart? Feel ready for kids now that they are older? Only they can answer that.
Do not say you’re infertile. If you expect honesty from your partner then hold yourself to that standard. Continue to be honest and firm. If you decide to get your tubes tied then be upfront about that.
You haven't disclosed any issues you have with her, so for the sake of the response, I'm going to angle it from the perspective that you're the root of these shortcoming. Start by acknowledging to her where you feel you can improve and give her a plan of action you can commit to. Propose ideas for more romantic activities together. Plan and schedule in date nights, couples time and such. If she continues to be unwilling to work with you or be reciprocal about re-building that spark, propose couple's therapy to have an open space and talk it out. If the wall is still there, I'd say it would seem she's given up on the relationship and has no desire to fight for it anymore. It would likely be best at that point to go solo and continue to self improve and grow.
Stop venting your family issues to him, he probably tired of hearing it. If you cut the toxic people out of your life, there wouldn’t be that much venting or having the risk of being drawn into that drama. Family is family, but there needs to be boundaries. And sometimes blood dont mean family, it just means you’re connected thru DNA.
Mom and daughter is a little more normal, you're not wrong for finding it weird though. I personally like my solitude.
I don’t care
Since we aren’t inside the heads of each of these men, it’s impossible to tell exactly where and when the shift happened. Were they being dishonest? Just had a regular change of heart? Feel ready for kids now that they are older? Only they can answer that.
Do not say you’re infertile. If you expect honesty from your partner then hold yourself to that standard. Continue to be honest and firm. If you decide to get your tubes tied then be upfront about that.
He sucks. Mentally a child. His religion destroyed his marriage,
He doesn't know what he's doing, which is why he locks himself in the bathroom.
Someone has probably made fun of him for not knowing before, but he still didn't bother googling it.
You haven't disclosed any issues you have with her, so for the sake of the response, I'm going to angle it from the perspective that you're the root of these shortcoming. Start by acknowledging to her where you feel you can improve and give her a plan of action you can commit to. Propose ideas for more romantic activities together. Plan and schedule in date nights, couples time and such. If she continues to be unwilling to work with you or be reciprocal about re-building that spark, propose couple's therapy to have an open space and talk it out. If the wall is still there, I'd say it would seem she's given up on the relationship and has no desire to fight for it anymore. It would likely be best at that point to go solo and continue to self improve and grow.
Stop venting your family issues to him, he probably tired of hearing it. If you cut the toxic people out of your life, there wouldn’t be that much venting or having the risk of being drawn into that drama. Family is family, but there needs to be boundaries. And sometimes blood dont mean family, it just means you’re connected thru DNA.
he's lying to you. he cheated because he wanted to. don't put up with this
Even though that it might just because she is stressed due to academics? Anyway thanks man greatly appreciated it.