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Absolutely.
At least your dad chose a professional instead of a woman outside of the industry… lesser chance of stds since it’s literally their job to be safe otherwise they can’t work and he’s likely not emotionally involved with anyone. He’s just receiving a service and then goes back to his normal life. You should definitely talk with him though and give him time to figure out how he’s going to tell your mom.
Your 12 year old has a gf and she is at your house and he’s only lived there a year damn dudes quick but none the less wtf
So you don’t love your boyfriend? You would do the test if you really love him and you didn’t answered my question. Would you be okay if he cuddles with other women?
Well saying you have a newborn at home, people would assume the newborn is with the other parent?
I don’t see the problem here. Did they go to the bar to hit on singles? Did they go there as a date? I can’t see any way this would be different to her going to a regular bar with a friend, unless there’s some context you’re leaving out.
You set boundaries with the opposite sex in your own relationship. Period.
Is she the first for you?
Yep. My hubby always pees outside when the dog has to go out or he’s outside working. We have a couple of acres, not much fear of onlookers. Pee adds nitrogen to the garden too, to look at the bright side.
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What?! I’d love to find out exactly what you’re smoking that equates to 5-6 shots of vodka lmao.
Let me preface this by saying I’m a serial monogamist so taking your side in this isn’t about open relationships in general.
You got into the relationship based on the premise it’s open. While there’s nothing wrong with him changing his mind, there’s also nothing wrong with wanting out when one partner wants to change the rules. You want an open relationship, so be with a partner who wants that as well.
I’d also be weary about the fact that he wants to close the relationship because he’s jealous you’re getting more action than him. That sounds like he hasn’t even actually changed his mind, he’s just resentful you’re more successful than him.
As for him being the best bf you’ve ever had: You got together when you were 18. Forget about that. There will be plenty of better partners for you down the road.
I think that the concern is less if he's gay (only he knows that) and rather whether or not you're happy in this relationship. That's up for you to decide. I'd focus more on if you're into this person romantically + sexually, whether you see a future with them or not, or if this is just someone you enjoy being close with who you feel is more comparable to a friend. That's up for you to decide.
You may also find that your mom had a reason to cry. Maybe your family puts down therapy because they don’t want to deal with their issues.
(The way you worded it she is your cousin..).
Dating is for figuring out if you are compatible with someone else. Yall obviously aren't soulmates or each other person and that's OK! You can break up for any reason and this is a perfectly OK reason to break up. Stop wasting each other times. There is a woman out there that hates the bar scene, trust me. Keep dating til you find someone with similar interests 🙂
Yall need to learn what boundaries are. Boundaries are not “you can't do this”, they're “I won't have this done to me.” Weaponising boundaries to make other people do things you don't like isn't healthy.
Ultimately OP you need to decide whether you trust your partner or not. If you do, it shouldn't matter who does what, you should trust him to not cheat. If you dont, ask yourself why. Really go on a deep dive. Figure it out. Because even if he just did what you wanted with this, there's clearly some underlying reason you don't trust him.
There’s a reason they make movies about bad in laws lol.
IMO you stand up for yourself, be stern with them, tell hubby that he needs to have your back unless he would rather be in a relationship with him mommy.
It’s annoying. I’ve always been a great mediator between in laws and my brothers wife’s etc.
It’s not hard to tell both parties to chill the fuck out.
It’s amazing to me that someone as an adult would just allow someone to mistreat their S.O.
I had the same stream of thought.
Seemed like a dick move at first. However, after OP ran to hide in the bathroom I knew if his friend didn't make the first move for him, he was going to lose the relationship to perceived coldness long before he would speak up.
I do agree that the issue was probably resolved as best as it could be, but OP needs to be in therapy for this, and not just from the perspective of the issue itself, but how it affects his interactions with others.
He almost lost a perfectly good relationship to his trauma. And while that isn't his fault, that is indicative that his trauma will take precedence over doing what he needs to do to preserve his relationships.
While that isn't an issue in and of itself, He IS in a relationship now, and not being able to manage that or at least even make them aware is relatively unfair to the person he is dating.
Whatever processes he's used to work through his history need to refocused if he's doing so at all in the moment, because this is a hurdle he's gonna trip over repeatedly if hes not working on it directly.
Glad it worked out though!
This is probably the most aggravating post i’ve read here today, because its pretty clear you’re going to dismiss the well-deserved harsh comments as people “not understanding of your lifestyle.”
It is so ridiculously fucking irresponsible that you let this person be introduced to your daughter. A 5 year old should have ZERO knowledge of any of this shit. This is between you and your wife.
immediate breakup. no excuse for his behavior, just get out now. you are not safe around him.
If there has been trouble for a while then they know it. So, yes, Set them free before they travel. It’s the decent thing to do.
Why don’t you call her or go see her in person and find out?
Yikes. My guy…a relationship can't function without intimacy. This guy is miserable and I only slightly feel for him (usually I wouldn't give a fuck because he has a significant other and I don't). Sometimes it's just better to move on from this relationship. I'm on the guys side.
Poor dog. You're family is literally neglecting/abusing it. Please rehome asap so that it can have a better life with a better family. Rehome the rabbits too. They all deserve better. And for the love of God stop getting pets.
OMG….thank you so much for your comment….it made me realize I didn't originally make clear that my amazing K is a woman. Hence, the special nature of my dilemma in “coming out.” I hope my edit clarifies that. I'm too young to go senile yet. Sheesh
that love is not everything and that looks are important to everyone, and that people who say they don't care about beauty are lying.
Why did he keep hanging around her?
Why did he not tell you??
Hmm that's a tough one. We're both incredibly over each other. I don't think there is anything that he could do to make me consider getting together with him.
If he asked me to get back together, I'd tell him that ship has sailed and that it was inappropriate for him to ask that. I would still try to maintain a positive coparenting relationship for the sake of the kids, but would obviously have to reinforce some serious boundaries.
You could literally spin that around and say if she truly loved him she would stay for him…..
Ya, those bumps can turn into thousand dollar a week addictions really fucking quick. And you never see it coming.
But you do you.
Thank you, I think I deserve that too..
Wtf, kids these days. I can't remember the last time I didn't open the car door for someone I liked or was dating.
I would break up with him simply for the waste of money. Coke is super expensive and it's irresponsible to waste money on it, especially if you're planning to start a family in a few years.
I set a hard limit for my partner as well. He struggled for a time, but came clear at my first confrontation and hasn't used it since. Not even weed which was also a no for me. Now it's been 2 years of him being clean. He allowed me to check him, his phone or his drawers anytime I wanted and was very open with his emotional struggles. But it doesn't sound like your partner has any desire to stop and in that case you can't do anything. You have to decide what you want to do. It sucks. Wish you and him the best.
You’re right. Thank you.
I guess since I was the one who got pissed off and walked away during the last fight, that for some reason I feel like it’s my fault, even though it’s all because she did these things.
STOP going on about this gym membership. The details and the past don’t matter. Remove your credit card from her account. Or remove it from both your accounts and put only your account on a different card if you’re worried about the gym charging you for both. I would seek a restraining order against her if you have any grounds at all to do so, and then the onus would be on her to avoid you. Cut her off and never engage with her again.
She could have a second life
Not at all. Doesn’t sound fun at all.
LOL Sounds fine to me. Not my religion, not my barrel of monkeys.
You are not going to be a parent. They are. They have also shown exactly how much they value you by doing this behind your back.
Thank you so much for this. The framing of the conversation really helps
OP maybe she liked you both equally but your d was just bigger, ever asked?
Yeah. I am sure it is mine. As I said in the post, the person lives far away. I guess I could always do a paternity test, and definitely would if I go the divorce route.
I think I am still willing to make it work but I guess a lot would depend on how she handles the confrontation.
He chose you specifically because 21 doesn't expect much. But a 32 year old woman would have.
LEAVE.
Go get your fucking life. 31 is the perfect age to start over.