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LustyEbony1996 Public Chat Channel
Date: October 11, 2022
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You have every right to feel more than a bit violated. You are experiencing the weird social taboo where we don't like to say that men can be raped.
You showed visible distress, tried to push her away, and she knew what she was doing was wrong. Please take care of yourself. While I understand this is the “grey area” of assault where it would be difficult to prosecute, still know you have every right to feel distressed and violated, and do what you need to take care of yourself.
Whatever you do, stay away from her. If you want to tell her why and think it would help you, tell her her behavior was unacceptable. but no more hook ups here.
Hell yes! Every tiny errand was definitely a big ordeal just to do!
You need to get over yourself.
Sounds like this doesn’t align with your values. I’m not going to tell you what you need to do, because you already know.
People who have comfortable stress-free lives often seem to feel that they need to create problems and drama, no idea why, this drive for life to mirror “reality” TV and soap operas baffles me. Perhaps she needed content for her social media…
She did sign something giving him full rights and ownership of the pictures, but he promised to consult with her over if he wants to use any for anything.
The friend is a creep. Your wife naively signed away her rights and he has no obligation to tell her anything before he puts those up live & you both would have no legal recourse to get them taken down. I would speak with him asap, tell him this was a boundary violation for you and you want the contract torn up and the pictures deleted. Hopefully, for the sake of peace, he will do so.
Not really, but you should do it
The group setting seems fair. I understand why someone wouldn’t be comfortable with their partner being friends with someone they slept with.
For me personally I try not to change the status quo much but I understand why he wants you to cut him off. It’s just nature of the beast unfortunately
Whoa, the unkindest cut. Gut check (with a professional) on why you would issue this kind of pain to someone that thought they were having a conversation. Probably because you aren't sure of what you want except to plunge ahead on your terms without entertaining talks of change.
OP suggested therapy to her already and she declined. The only reason I can think of as to why someone who is supposedly suffering like that would decline help is if they're not actually suffering at all. It's too suspicious.
I am so sorry that you are experiencing this. I really am.
I was in a similar situation than you. My ex was an emotional mess and even treating me poorly and having emotional affairs I decided to stay cause I loved him. I supported him, payed the bills, allowed him to follow his dreams to be rewarded with a talk ask for us to have an open marriage because he wanted to explore his sexuality and date other women. He already had a girl ten years younger that he wanted to pursue.
I was devastated. And after having a crisis and suffer so much, I decided to chose myself and I left him.
I never been happier. Sure, leaving a long term relationships sucks and took me ages to be ready to date again. And is not easy cause I am one year younger than you and I am fat, which makes me almost an alien on the dating market, but better alone than with an abuser..and I have some fun. Life is easier and happier.
I wish you chose yourself and do the same..you are amazing and you deserve better.