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Date: September 23, 2022
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Sounds like you got attached. Big mistake.
Move on. He's not even your boyfriend.
and I was incredibly vulnerable with him
This is why FWB rarely works.
Yes, good. Clubs have the double payoff of making new friends and providing an escape from your studies with a hobby you already enjoy.
Oh, and when guys (or anyone really) get crude on text messages, its okay to get nasty yourself (but in a single reply, don't engage), or just ignore and block. Guys like this are using spam techniques. He replies to hundreds of women hoping for a few replies. By saying no, but even just replying with any level of respect at all, it was a message to him that sex was on the table if he just kept trying. The only reply should have been “No way. F__K off.” Just a bit of advice from an old guy.
I hope your studies go well. Cheers.
Sure hope so. I read everything I can and take the advice of those who have been there before me.
I know someone who claimed jerking off wasn't the reason for bedroom issues… For years. It took an experiment to make them think about things. One week, where they only finished with their partner. No content. Just them and their partner. One week went by, and they suggested another week, because they noticed a huge difference in sensation and connection with their partner. We're all so exposed to explicit content from such an early age, we don't realize there's a problem until it's too late. It's instant gratification, and it strips you of the connection with another person, if you're not mindful of the downside. Porn has become so mainstream and normalized, but we fail to realize that too much of anything isn't good for us. To clarify, I have no problem with solo time. But when a partner actively chooses that over intimacy? Or has problems performing/finishing without said content? That, I have a problem with
Getting a lap dance isn’t cheating. If you think it is, you’re entitled to your opinion, and you’re gonna find that every guy you date has cheated on you sometime.
Come on bro have some self worth.. It’s not worth going through this, just get rid…
Stop using his mental health as a excuse.
“Oh, the dog died because he hit him too much, but he has a long list of mental illnesses and his family was abusive.”
Well, if he has so many problems he shouldn't be having a dog as a punching bag.
Also, you are not responsible for this person. You are not his social worker, his doctor, or his mom. You are going to waste all of your young adult years caring for a man? How about you? What are you doing with your life? How are you improving your life and building your life? Do you want to be 30 or 40 or 50 and look back and see that you spent all of you energy on this person? That's if he doesn't hit you on the head and kills you or something.
Whether you leave or stay is up to you, obviously. She seems to be honest with you. Would she be willing to intentionally distance herself from people she gets crushes for?
Yikes, doesn’t seem like you two are comparable….. I’d say try anal sex, oral sex, or anything else other than PIV.
Don't go back. That is not a healthy way of dealing with good things, so there's no way he's gonna be able to deal with tough things in life.