The whole idea that this is a “test” is so weird to me. But i also honestly dont know what an “intimate” date is, particularly one that would be more comfortable with a friend.
Id probably just be like ok ill go get drunk with your sister. Even in my shittiest years i cant imagine hitting on her. That seems extremely aggressive. Anybody thinking that would “trap” me would be too dumb to trap me.
A lot of people in here seem dead set on this situation being a deal breaker but idk maybe because of the things I’ve been thru in life I see different not saying that isn’t nuts and a crazy thing to experience that girl seems like a fucking hot head maybe she shouldn’t have a gun if that’s how she acts with one but also it wasn’t the guy’s fault he didn’t tell the girl to stick a gun in your Face ID pay more attention if I was you to how he handles it after and if he has a talking to with the girl
I think you could ask your stepfather what he thinks. He may easily understand the problem and not be upset. Your mother should not be making trouble on his behalf.
Because you have two different fathers of different types, you might find a creative way to dance with each of them.
Neither was I, I couldn’t bear flaky uncontrolled drinkers, then I loosened up and I eventually did same, and yes I understood that things change. If you refuse to understand eventually something will change, as she sounds motte outgoing and easy going. Being too rigid with others can be a drag
The whole idea that this is a “test” is so weird to me. But i also honestly dont know what an “intimate” date is, particularly one that would be more comfortable with a friend.
Id probably just be like ok ill go get drunk with your sister. Even in my shittiest years i cant imagine hitting on her. That seems extremely aggressive. Anybody thinking that would “trap” me would be too dumb to trap me.
Nope. Don’t live life in the rear view.
However, how long should I keep this going if he doesn't become official with me and actually ask me to be his girlfriend?
If you'd asked this six months ago, I would have said 'a week or so'.
'Situationships' are a very modern development that are pretty rubbish for all involved. Either commit or don't – simple as.
You’re the side chick. You will never be his priority.
I’m sorry but “Go make plans with your gay ex!” is killing me ?? man brought out the big guns
You’re pregnant with a daughter and want to go back to a place where you’re unsafe and it’s okay for your father to assault you, alone? Ma’am.
A lot of people in here seem dead set on this situation being a deal breaker but idk maybe because of the things I’ve been thru in life I see different not saying that isn’t nuts and a crazy thing to experience that girl seems like a fucking hot head maybe she shouldn’t have a gun if that’s how she acts with one but also it wasn’t the guy’s fault he didn’t tell the girl to stick a gun in your Face ID pay more attention if I was you to how he handles it after and if he has a talking to with the girl
I think you could ask your stepfather what he thinks. He may easily understand the problem and not be upset. Your mother should not be making trouble on his behalf.
Because you have two different fathers of different types, you might find a creative way to dance with each of them.
Neither was I, I couldn’t bear flaky uncontrolled drinkers, then I loosened up and I eventually did same, and yes I understood that things change. If you refuse to understand eventually something will change, as she sounds motte outgoing and easy going. Being too rigid with others can be a drag