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Date: October 10, 2022
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If he is your life partner, than you know. Otherwise, there are so many other people 🙂
For her to not want sex as age 25 is just crazy IMO because IMO at that age sex should be off the freakin' rails. There's something else going on, either she's getting it somewhere else or she's just not into you anymore, nothing else to be said really
This is really shitty of you to say. There are a myriad of levels of sexual need and interest. Straight up saying 'if you don't want it all the time there is something wrong with you' so unnecessarily shaming and judgmental. Surely you've heard of high libido, low libido and asexual?? If not, get your head out from under that rock.
It is actually quite common for someone to have a higher libido at the beginning of a new relationship but have that drop off – sometimes dramatically so – as the relationship continues. Some people just really don't care about sex or have much interest in it or rarely 'crave' it. Because – Newsflash! – people are different and have different desire levels.
Does that mean OP needs to stay in a relationship with someone who has a dramatically different libido than he does? Nope. But it doesn't mean there is something wrong with her either. Yeesh.
You also don't remember what happened, but blame the gf because she sent a picture of something happening?
You're too old for these high school games. What's wrong with you?
If Ashley’s in an ENM relationship, she should have asked about yours. And your wife should have told her it was monogamous. And Ashley should have said, “I’m not here to be anyone’s affair partner. Let’s do this ethically or not at all.”
Instead they sexted and made secret plans together, which your wife then sprang on you.
At whichever point they deviated from a more ethical approach, that was a violation of your relationship.
The fact they didn’t respect you and your relationship means this was an affair. Ashley is the affair partner and always will be. I doubt you’ll ever feel great about her. And that’s on her and on your wife.
If you want monogamy forever, great. You can tell your wife that. If you’re open to threesomes, or to her exploring ENM herself, that’s great too – but it shouldn’t be with Ashley. It should be with someone who isn’t stained as an affair partner, who enters the picture in a respectful way that you can feel good about.
I’m gay. Being queer often means slowly coming to terms with your attractions/desires… needing time to figure it out and accept yourself. Your wife may have needed an Ashley to help her explore her own wishes and get to the point she was prepared to tell you. The screwy part is trying to bring Ashley into your life and expecting you to instantly feel good about it/her. You’re going to need time too to come to terms with all this.
It’s possible your wife is gay and not bi. Or maybe she’s bi and your marriage is forever. I’d want her in therapy to figure herself out and handle this slower, with more consideration for you. Because at the moment, she’s focused on herself and jerking you around. If she wants you to be on board, and feeling like her #1 priority, she needs to put some effort into that.
I’m so so sorry.