She sounds absolutely insufferable. Good people aren't like that. A healthy relationship isn't like that. There is absolutely way better out there and you should seek it
He’s lying about everything because he knows you’re too young to know better. As other people have told you, he’s a predator. He’s already pressuring you into things you don’t want to do. You’re not in love with him, you’re infatuated because I assume he’s the first man to act interested, but his intentions are definitely not good.
Also the Feb 14 thing, he was with his wife and sent you the extravagant gift to distract you from your validated anger. It’s called love bombing and it’s a tactic abusers use to manipulate their victims.
Thank you. This almost made me tear up a bit actually. I'm gonna have to take this plunge. It's going to hurt at first but what will my future look like if I stay? More of the same? More lies and gaslighting. Thank you.
Doesn't it seem a bit controlling that a FWB wants you to stop talking to someone you like? He's a FWB, not your boyfriend that he has any right to tell you this. It sounds like might be jealous that you might be moving on from him. I wouldn't entertain this request.
sorry but you’re mental health crisis is not your girlfriend’s responsibility.
You aren’t stable enough for a relationship and next time you are having a mental health crisis call the relevant authorities in your area who can help not some 18 year old that you trying to manipulate to spend time with you.
No, I’m asking for advice. Who the fuck cares what I call it? Seriously
She sounds absolutely insufferable. Good people aren't like that. A healthy relationship isn't like that. There is absolutely way better out there and you should seek it
He’s lying about everything because he knows you’re too young to know better. As other people have told you, he’s a predator. He’s already pressuring you into things you don’t want to do. You’re not in love with him, you’re infatuated because I assume he’s the first man to act interested, but his intentions are definitely not good.
Also the Feb 14 thing, he was with his wife and sent you the extravagant gift to distract you from your validated anger. It’s called love bombing and it’s a tactic abusers use to manipulate their victims.
Thank you. This almost made me tear up a bit actually. I'm gonna have to take this plunge. It's going to hurt at first but what will my future look like if I stay? More of the same? More lies and gaslighting. Thank you.
it wasn’t an issue then and it still isn’t now
Doesn't it seem a bit controlling that a FWB wants you to stop talking to someone you like? He's a FWB, not your boyfriend that he has any right to tell you this. It sounds like might be jealous that you might be moving on from him. I wouldn't entertain this request.
I'm on the hubby is an AH side too!
sorry but you’re mental health crisis is not your girlfriend’s responsibility.
You aren’t stable enough for a relationship and next time you are having a mental health crisis call the relevant authorities in your area who can help not some 18 year old that you trying to manipulate to spend time with you.
This is concerning