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Johovanna, 25 y.o.
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Date: October 10, 2022
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Well for me, I think, it’s that he hasn’t be a consistent figure. Whilst we can try to work out our relationship it’s ALWAYS rocky.
I did show him pictures beforehand and ask ohhhhh look such a bargain price, quite close etc etc what do you think. He didn’t offer a comment such as, I pressure handles to handless, I prefer oak to white etc.
I just don’t see how someone can insist I’m inconsiderate after living in another house for a few weeks. Beforehand he owned half a house with his cousin, who moved his gf in, my bf was ALWAYS complaining about how he thought she was going to far or didn’t understand it wasn’t HER house etc. so, I don’t think our opinions are that different, it’s simply now the shoe is on the other foot.
Thank you for your reply and taking time to answer 🙂 Merry Christmas
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You guys might deserve each other because your comment about what she looks like is disgusting. What does that have to do with anything?
Your girlfriend is deeply disturbed, has no concrete sense of right or wrong and is toxic. Not all of it is her fault, of course, but she is in need of intense therapy if she’s ever going to be a mentally healthy person.
Asking if she is a bad person is a childish way of approaching it. She is profoundly damaged on multiple levels. And the only way that will change is if she wants to change it. It’s not up to you to fix her.
It’s been 4 months, and he’s still stating he doesn’t want a relationship.
While you don’t seem crazy to think there might be feelings, he’s being explicit with you that there is no further relationship beyond friends or FWB. Believe him, don’t romanticize it. Maybe he’s the type of person that can recognize feelings for you, but understand in the logical part of his brain that it either won’t work out in the longterm (which might be what he’s looking for in a partner if any) or he’s just not available to support a commitment at this time.
The right course of action would be to talk to him, like any friend. If you’re catching feels and it’s not in the cards for him, then pull back on any and all sexual ties to him and explain why. This will be easier to reframe your friendship around the other types of support you can lend eachother, and leave little room for doubts of “maybe I’m a bad friend” or “maybe I’m too XYZ”. Communication in ANY relation , platonic or otherwise, is key.
If he’s fresh out of a painful previous relationship, he still has work to do to heal, or improve and grow, or both. He deserves that space too, without being poked and prodded of when he’ll be ready.
I wish you the best and hope of you want a friendship out of this, that you can get it without pain to the heart.