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My boyfriend has autism. He asked me what I wanted for Christmas. I gave him a list. He got me things on said list – and then a really sweet, thoughtful, unexpected gift (a stuffed animal that smells like him!). If you’re spelling out for him what you want, and he is not getting you those things… then maybe it’s time to reevaluate this relationship. I understand he has ADHD – but he does need to make SOME effort. And it sounds like he is using his diagnosis as a crutch instead of trying to work with it. He needs to take some accountability – does he write down the things you want? Take pictures? Make an Amazon wish list to remind himself of the things you want?
You didn't put anything on custody agreement that he cannot introduce anyone after a period of time and also move them into his home, where your kids will be living?
Fuck the uk someone breaks I and your suppose to let them leave.
Having a baby absolutely can be throwing one's life away, especially one at the wrong time
Being apart for holidays isn’t the same as being apart permanently.
Now, as far as your career goes, I’d advise you pursue what’s in your best interest and what’s right for you. The harsh reality is that if you give a great opportunity up for her and don’t have one near her, you’ll almost certainly resent her for it and be miserable.
Despite saying all that, we’re still putting the cart before the horse. You might very well find something local. It’s not an immediate concern. Also, an interview is exactly that; an interview. I certainly hope it goes well and you get an offer, but you have no idea if that’ll be the case.
But here’s the thing. While I again would choose your life goals in your specific context, she’s told you long distance isn’t happening. That’s fair enough. It’s hot. That’s not even considering what the end game is.
Knowing that though, you can’t really put this on her. She’s not stopping you from looking for opportunities. She’s just telling you she won’t be able to handle long distance. As such, you need to decide how important this relationship is to you. You need to get out of any sort of mindset of “we can make it work,” or “if you love me you’d give it a chance.” Its a hard no.
So you’re choosing her or your career. That’s fine, but understand it’s your decision and your’s alone. As for what to do now, if you were 100% moving, I’d say end it now. Since you don’t know, I don’t see a reason why you’d end things given the possibility that you might not be long distance. Good luck.
Yeah that’s unfortunately what I’m thinking. One of my friends went through this in college and it was heartbreaking. She felt so betrayed bc she had been used as a phase
Do you hear yourself? You want to know if there will be a 2nd date before the first one?
Don't go. He deserves much better than you!
And women wonder why guys get confused about what you want.
Tell him you don’t like that behavior and it makes you uncomfortable.
He's an equal adult to you. When someone tells you to stop something, you understand that it's offensive and you stop doing it, correct? He's not a child nor mentally inferior, he understands also, but had been unwilling to stop because he doesn't care enough or respect you enough. Take this into consideration.
People don't suddenly “wake up” one day and change their ways for a person they've been waking up to for days on end. They do however get comfortable being disrespectful and get worse because they think you're not going anywhere and you will accept the behavior no matter what because you're an optimist and think one day they'll be different. But they won't and don't plan to.
So, long story short, he doesn't plan on “understanding” one day because he already does understand. He just doesn't care that it hurts you. This is a fundamental flaw in him, not you. But you need to take the steps to get away from him and separate yourself from him, so that you can see that there are non delusional partners that will appreciate you in the world. Don't waste your life and time on someone who has their brain preoccupied with digital fantasy garbage.
So men cannot be like “wow, I'm going to figure out how to do this” when they are adults?
No red flag about the teen porn. Most(all?) men first became sexual aware when they were teens surrounded by teens. I believe that explains a lot of the teen girl fetish imho.
I would have a family sit down and acknowledge that three women are moving in with a man so you need some privacy ground rules and limits that reflect that reality.
You are working your ass off trying to make a better life for the two of you and she is resentful that you are not giving her enough attention and goes and has an affair.
She doesn't “have a point”. You need someone that has your back during tough times! What would she do if you got sick?
It’s bc I’m an introvert lol. I never really had friends just work/school acquaintances. But ur right I think the best thing I can do is make space between us and take time for myself
I think that's a TERRIBLE idea!
First of all, we're not talking about “guys in general.” We're talking about one specific human being, with real human feelings. FWB arrangements only work when both partners are interested in the same thing, namely casual, NSA sex when it's mutually convenient, with the understanding that the sex will end as soon as one or both of them find someone they actually want to date. It's also an arrangement that works best when the two people involved really are FRIENDS already, and are likely to continue as friends long after the benefits end. You barely even know this guy, and you want to make him your sex buddy?
What you are proposing to tell him is, “I don't have any romantic feelings for you, but it's OK if you want to be my boy toy until someone better comes along.” It's a cruel, self-centered thing to say. How would you like it, if a guy you thought was really special said that to you?
It's far better to tell him you think he's a nice guy, and you're flattered but you're not interested in dating him, so you won't be answering any more of his texts. If he continues to text you, go ahead and block him.
I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this. It's understandable to feel hurt and betrayed when discovering that your partner has been consuming porn, especially if it goes against your personal values or makes you feel inadequate in some way.
However, it's important to remember that watching porn is a common behavior for many people and doesn't necessarily mean that your boyfriend doesn't find you attractive or doesn't enjoy your sex life together. People can have a variety of reasons for consuming porn, and it's not always related to dissatisfaction with their current partner.
That being said, it's also important for partners to communicate openly and honestly about their sexual desires and boundaries. If you feel uncomfortable with your boyfriend's porn consumption, it's important to express that to him and have an open and honest conversation about it. It's also important to address any trust issues that may have arisen from previous incidents, such as him having Tinder on his phone.
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what you are comfortable with in a relationship and whether or not you can trust your partner. It may be helpful to seek out counseling or therapy to work through these issues together.
This is a very good point ty