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William and Mia, 18 y.o.
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Date: September 22, 2022
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Do you think I should leave it be? I have a good relationship with her family and her house-members and wouldn’t it be rude if I just leave her like this?
Unfortunately I feel like the only thing to say is that you are in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect or love you the way you deserve in a relationship. My best friend had a VERY painful time with her now husband, it was her first, and they took breaks, he took time to make sure she felt good and comfortable, and of course the lubricants and things you need sometimes. They spent hours just in the process of un-virgining her ?.
But the very core of that has to be that HE needs to be the one to want to fix it, otherwise there is nothing that can be done. If he doesn’t care enough to make sure you feel good now, then he never will. And you will never not have resentful and uncomfortable sex with this partner because they won’t do the bare minimum you need to even be comfortable. Not aroused, not turned on, just comfortable and safe. This person can not give you even that.
And since I happened to see that you are bio male, one thing that helped me (f) enjoy the “backdoor” was mastrubating alone. That way you are wholly in control, comfy, and expecting your own movements. Wishing you the best!
You should leave, doesn't sound like you're a good bf either.
Yeah maybe I’m overthinking idk. I know it’s normal for your friends to mix with your girlfriend and what not but just thought this seemed so extreme. Pretty sure my friend talks to her more than me now haha
When the universe wants you to get busted…..
I'm so sorry this is happening to you. On the plus side, I'm glad he's dumb enough to stick something in his glove box, so you have evidence.
And, he ran to his mom because he's guilty. Otherwise, he'd stay and hash it out.
She did one time at first, several years ago.
And now she still makes money without. I am not sure why that is so hot to understand that someone could do the same without sleeping with someone the first time.
In all this, you should also think what exactly is hurting you.
If there was more than a kiss, if it was a continuous affair, that's one thing. But if she was drunk, and made a questionable move, are you so inflexible to think that demonstrates her nature?
If anything can make people do questionable stuff, drink is right at the top of the list. Drunk people drive unsafely, piss and defecate in public, yell, scream, get into public fights. All that doesn't say that they are inherently public-defector or whatever. It means that they should control or stop their drinking.
Are you hurt because she drank so much that she forgot herself? Or is that single kiss itself the main pill of poison? You both have a long history, and you seem to have a lot of feelings for her. Why would a single kiss destroy that?
Would you have taken the same stance if instead, she had done one of the other things, like say she had had an accident while driving drunk? That's not an unrelated question – it would be just as much a result of drinking as that kiss, and has just the same emotional quotient to it: none. The kiss does not signify she loves you less. It only shows she should stay away from drinking.
On the other hand, if all this has made you realize your love for her is gone, then probably this breakup was long time coming and the kiss was just the last straw. In that case you should be more honest with her, and with yourself.
You bi , she needs to decide to stay or leave
Is it okay? Sure.
Is it advisable? Much harder to say. In particular, you need to have a clear idea of what you're dealing with and what precautions you have if it goes sour, especially given the age gap here. People who want sugar babies want sugar babies instead of actual partners for a reason, and that makes them unlike any general conception you might have of the maturity level of people his age.
This was my thought too.
I used to work with a guy that did this. He would obsessively lie about our female coworkers and how convienantly every single one of them was just dying to hook up with him. He would make a huge deal about how the HR lady was totally texting him behind her husband's back, and our boss was constantly “hinting” at an affair. The lady at the gas station that morning was just sooooo flirty with him, he just doesn't know what he could possibly doooooo about all these people who totally waaaaant him.
Yeah, no. Half of these women either didn't exist at all, legitimately had not spoken to him in any fashion, or he did speak to them about something normal and routine then lied about what a steamy interaction it was. He was never able to produce proof of these text messages or call logs he'd brag about so obsessively. He was just a gross, lonely neckbeard that desperately wanted everyone around him to think he was some sort of Casanova.
I get the vibe this situation and OPs is probably similiar.
Well at least you know and understand why they don’t talk to you.
Actions have consequences and you’ll be lucky if you ever will have a relationship with your family again.
For real. Especially three months into the relationship? BYE.
Thank you so much
Thank you so much
Is a 27M living at home with mom a cultural thing which is common where you're both from? Because here in California it means the man is a failure at life and an utter embarrassment.
Partners will see you at your worst. My partner has seen me after 10hr shifts at 2am, I felt and looked like shit – he was still kind, loving and respectful.
Partners attitude towards you should not be dependant on whether they want to fuck you that second
That's why he didn't tell you!
He wanted to get physical with you.
And now he wanted to emotionally hurt you.
And don't you believe he is done by now.
Dude your situation sounds a lot like mine for the last couple years of my marriage. Like you I tried to fix it in a few ways, offered suggestions to work as a couple to fix things and one day I had enough and say we're done can't spend the rest of my life like that. A year and a half later I know that was the best decision I could have made at that time.
You can't fix someone who refuses to believe there is a problem to be fixed, it just doesn't work and you will destroy your own mental health trying.
Obviously this is just a snapshot of your relationship and it's easy to say what to do when I don't know you and vice versa but if you genuinely tried to make it work when together and she didn't then it's not up to you to try now that it's over. You don't have kids together so you literally never have to see her or her family again if you choose not to.
This isn't about the anal sex.
He makes me feel god awful about this not working. He says that I always make excuses to get out of it, and he even accuses me of leading him on about it.
This /\ is why you break up with him, because he's actually a shitbag. I would be willing to bet he's less-than-nice to you about other things as well. Please, love yourself & find someone who is kind, caring, & considerate, not just focused on his sexual fantasies.
You’ll have to make your own decision about this, based on how he has treated you. All these people saying that he must be guilty because he was charged, are full of shit. None of them know a thing about it. I can understand this is something you want to know, but when is the right time to tell someone you where wrongfully accused of a crime? First date? First month? I mean honestly, they’re things aren’t easy to navigate, ultimately you have to trust your gut on this, because I can tell you, I was once accused of a crime I had nothing to do with, and it’s not something I like to discuss with anyone, ever.
How often do you? Do you do it during sex? There’s nothing weird abt that. Correct his behavior: “not like that like this please”
Ultimately, if he can’t do things differently than you you may be sexually incompatible and that’s ok. Sex is important part of relationship
I wish I had this flaw
They are trying to make this about how petty and jealous you are, but it's really about how petty and controlling they are. He is mad you are not bending to his will, that's all.
I think you should believe in what you want, not Reddit, parents, your sister, etc.
If you have your opinions abd your experience, you have the right to think freely and form them, modify them, keep them and even being contradicting and challenge them at times if you want to do so.
Oh the other hand, people are also entitled to think they are wrong and they disagree with your views. That doesn't mean your views are wrong though. That just mean they have other views, opinions, experiences that are different from you, abd theirs should be respected as much as yours.
There isn't much right/wrong in this. The only wrong thing would be to act agressively to each other, be disrespectful, rude and even violent because of these differences. Forcing an opinion into other people, being constantly ridiculed for your opinion, finding not-called for moments to pick up an opinion battle that leads to nowhere but fights and separation, these are examples of bad attitudes.
You can trust people that live with you because, in their reality, your opinions are bullshit and super uncommon. But that's their reality. You can also trust the people who replied to you saying your ideas are common because that's their reality. These aren't contradicting ideas, just two different groups.
Your girlfriend is abusing that cat, and as it stands now you’re enabling the abuse.