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How do you know her values on intimacy is different from yours? They may have changed within the gap between then and now.
Chill with the weird demonization of BDSM stuff, people like what they like, and it’s hardly an indicator of morality or character. People into BDSM can also enjoy ‘vanilla’ or regular sex, and if you’re still feeling insecure then talk to her about it. Ask questions and LISTEN, and don’t be like an asshole, be open-minded and take any criticisms with the willingness to try and communicate your feelings on them. But don’t assume everyone that likes BDSM related things are BDSM freaks that can’t live without it. Maybe try to prep your mind to try new things that might work out for you? don’t push over any hard boundaries you have though, that’ll be a disaster. If you absolutely feel like you can’t do it, that’s fine too but at least you can say you tried!
As for the sugar daddy stuff, it’s kinda like, so what? she wasn’t with you then, but she’s found her way into a happy relationship with you. She chose you dude !! Congrats you won your lotto !! Be happy man, practice gratefulness. You fell in love with her, does her past really change the 1 1/2 years of your relationship? All the ups and downs? The only cause for concern would be if one of those ‘downs’ involved cheating, in that case i’d abandon ship.
Maybe it was deceitful to wait so long to tell you about that part of their sex life, but i understand why they might’ve not wanted to talk about it because they don’t want you overthinking or questioning their love for you. Even more so if their values of intimacy has changed.
idk i’m hoping these perspectives can help you since you said you want to get over it.
How do you know her values on intimacy is different from yours? They may have changed within the gap between then and now.
Chill with the weird demonization of BDSM stuff, people like what they like, and it’s hardly an indicator of morality or character. People into BDSM can also enjoy ‘vanilla’ or regular sex, and if you’re still feeling insecure then talk to her about it. Ask questions and LISTEN, and don’t be like an asshole, be open-minded and take any criticisms with the willingness to try and communicate your feelings on them. But don’t assume everyone that likes BDSM related things are BDSM freaks that can’t live without it. Maybe try to prep your mind to try new things that might work out for you? don’t push over any hard boundaries you have though, that’ll be a disaster. If you absolutely feel like you can’t do it, that’s fine too but at least you can say you tried!
As for the sugar daddy stuff, it’s kinda like, so what? she wasn’t with you then, but she’s found her way into a happy relationship with you. She chose you dude !! Congrats you won your lotto !! Be happy man, practice gratefulness. You fell in love with her, does her past really change the 1 1/2 years of your relationship? All the ups and downs? The only cause for concern would be if one of those ‘downs’ involved cheating, in that case i’d abandon ship.
Maybe it was deceitful to wait so long to tell you about that part of their sex life, but i understand why they might’ve not wanted to talk about it because they don’t want you overthinking or questioning their love for you. Even more so if their values of intimacy has changed.
idk i’m hoping these perspectives can help you since you said you want to get over it.
We did have the conversation. He lied. It's okay. I'm free now and not pregnant.
You're right, I'm contradicting myself.
This is just sick. Don't do it and if you can cut her out of your life.