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Date: October 10, 2022
Oh man, the exact reason I don’t want an unstable girl. They are just a pain in the ass to deal with. This isn’t your fault homie if you truly forgot that all existed which it sounds like you did otherwise why would you even let her use your phone. This is a her issue, it’s not like she didn’t have past relationships. My advice? Don’t date girls with BPD, or any mental health issues for that matter.
Sounds like you're holding on to some pretty outdated gender roles OP. You're perfectly capable of providing security for yourself.
as a woman also approaching 30 I understand where you are coming from. I’m 28- and I had a manic episode which lasted almost all year of me cutting guys off from the jump that weren’t emotionally available.
It’s very scary nearing 30 and majority of your friends current and from your past are in healthy relationships and/or engaged or married and some with children.
The biological clock is ticking. You have invested a considerable amount of time with this man. If you dump him there will be a period of needing to stay single to heal.
Here’s a chart-
29 now You dump him.
1 year of going back and forth and healing.
1 year of really getting back out there.
31 you’ve met a couple of serious contenders.
You have 3 years left before you are considered a geriatric pregnancy. You pick one.
31.5 and 6 months into dating a really nice guy- he finally asks to take things to the next level. You become the GF you meet the family, he meets yours.
32/33
You move in together. Now it’s best to spend at least a year together to see if you’re compatible for marriage. Congrats you are.
33
He pops the question after living together for a year. Wants a long engagement. Also best to live an additional year together under the stress of putting together a wedding to see how you handle problem solving as a team.
Now you’re 34 and geriatric Newlyweds. Don’t you want to enjoy your husband for a few years before popping out children?
Now you’re 37 total geriatric pregnancy maybe even IVF recommended
I get it girl- this was the manic thinking I felt all last year. But what I realized is- this thinking will drive you crazy.
this sort of thinking will make you miss out on all of the memories you can be creating right now. these memories of your now should be those of love and beauty and evolution with a partner by your side who loves and respects you.
Dump him now.
Sooner the better. And kids will come when they are meant. And the good man you deserve that will be your future husband and future father of your children will come to you at the divine time and he will love you like no other…and one day in the future…you’ll wake up in the morning as the sunlight peaks through your curtains…the birds are chirping…and as you roll over…your beautiful faithful husband is there to kiss you good morning and remind you how beautiful you are…and you’ll roll out of bed a little drowsy and stumble your way gently to the bathroom to freshen up…and your husband will run downstairs to make pancakes for your beautiful children who get to see a healthy and oh so loving marriage between their mother and father.
dump him girl…you deserve better. love yourself first. you’ve got this.
No, you're right. She got caught and instead of facing it she spins it so you're the bad guy.
you are an adult, so why are you badgering a person like this? honestly you should know better than to keep piling on a stranger already going through all of this.
Everything you said is also quite worrisome.