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Panties off [Multi Goal]
Date: October 10, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Panties off [Multi Goal]
He admits he insults you because he wants you to feel bad and “improve” (change to suit his desires)….he is trash. He couldn't even keep a mask up for more than 6 months? Dumb unskilled trash. Most manipulators can play nice for much much longer.
Question, do you live! together? Does he work full Time in a career he enjoys?
“What do I even do here?”
Go to bars without him.
Realizing you’re insecure is a big step. And it sounds like you have some very valid reasons for feeling that way. However, the dinners together aren’t confusing for the kids. It’s actually really important and healthy for the parents to show a united front and that they co-parent amicably. It does sound like he’s playing both sides against the middle and gaslighting you though. How do you know the ex is bad mouthing you at these dinners? Is he telling you that? I feel like there were a number of red flags in your post and they were all pointing at him.
You don't have to make creepy comments about moms just because this person has some bad opinions.
Wait you think he should have stopped making food and walked 10 min in the rain just to walk 10 min back just because she felt like it? There was no real reason for him to go there and clear reasons not to. I think her even asking this was selfish, let alone getting upset about it when he was cooking her food.
Id tell you to grow up but you're already almost 30. Dude is doing his job and you're mad at him for it?
Go to couples counseling, but don’t just concentrate on your wife’s needs, couples counseling is about both of your needs together. It is a great neutral environment to discuss your concerns and find solutions and work on communicating with each other. But it takes time.
Take your wife out on a date. If you can see if you can go away for the weekend or even overnight. Spend time together, talking and listening to one another.
You are feeling insecure right now due to your history with insecurities. Trust that you can with the help of therapy get back to a place that you feel more secure. You should also be honest with her and tell her that if her communication with the person is truly effecting you, you should be honest and ask her to limit her time communicating with this person to only work related issues while you work through your problems and get reconnected. It is not selfish to ask for her to limit her time communicating, your relationship is far more important and your wife needs clarity to see that and this person could be clouding her ability to do that.
You may also think about therapy for yourself to feel more secure in who you are and what you need and want in a relationship.
You're both being passive aggressive with that behavior. And an ex should almost always remain an ex. Just block him or tell him hey this isn't working for me I'm out.
Just say that you want to diagnose her with BPD.
Vierolyn, you're confusing spotting warning signs with making a diagnosis. There is a world of difference between the two. Hundreds of mental health centers list the symptoms for various mental health disorders on their public websites to encourage the lay public to learn how to spot warning signs. They know that, when laymen are able to spot these warning signs, they are far more likely to see a professional to obtain a diagnosis — and they will do so much more quickly.