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Date: September 20, 2022
Jealousy is an instinct that everyone is born with so it's not just you and it's not due to your anxiety. Instincts can be overcome but it's very difficult and most can't manage it.
For this reason I always recommend against open relationships as they usually end poorly or turn out to be an excuse to end the relationship without officially ending it.
It's pretty obvious that your partner has fallen out of love with you but doesn't want to admit it or go through a breakup.
The sooner you move on the sooner you can get rid of the cloud of uncertainty hanging over you and find someone better for you. Even if the relationship is open, you won't be able to find anyone looking for a serious relationship when you're already in one.
Have you tried dating older guys? Generally they will be more mature and less fixated on aesthetics then someone in there 20s.
Most “alt” folks tend to grow out of labels, dress codes, etc. but retain the things that you say that you like about them (kind, feminist, lefty ideals, etc.) so if you find a 35+ who used to be more into the scene stuff, you will probably find someone who is more likely to not be turned off by your look and profession but still has the things you are looking for.
There is nothing you can do to change him. That's something he needs to do for himself, and if he doesn't want to or keeps making excuses why he “can't” then that's all there is to it.
You can decide if you want to be with this person, and that's all you have control over. Certainly offering to help with resumes and applications is awesome, but if he isn't taking them seriously or returning their calls then you're simply wasting your time.
If he asks for help, certainty help but the more you do for him, the more you are enabling him to “do nothing” for himself. The best help you can give him is to let him take care of himself. Do not stay with him hoping he'll change, or thinking enabling and supporting are the same thing.