For me, someone staying the night in my home in a 2 yes 1 no situation, it should be discussed. If my partner or I aren’t comfortable with someone staying for whatever reason then they don’t stay.
Did you communicate that it was important to you vs just a polite invite? Does he know this cousin?
Should he be a little more intuitive? Yeah, I’d hope so. But you have to ask for what you want and let people know when it’s important vs casual/optional.
Leave her, if she wants to sleep around she can and be single.
Do you think it would be healthy for the relationship long term to not say anything and just bottle it up?
Nah, she cornered him even asking this question. This is not “Boyfriend 101” stuff, this is “fuck around and find out” stuff for her.
If he didn't answer I promise she woulda kept bugging him about it until he did. He had no win option.
You’re a thirsty sad fuck, that’s all.
Learn to Grey Rock. Don't accept guilt for things you don't do. Leave as soon as you can!
Yeah. 17 years is a really long time to be friends. I think you were too harsh, OP, unless they are acting inappropriately.
Maybe true,as I was never with anyone who was still in love with an ex though.
For me, someone staying the night in my home in a 2 yes 1 no situation, it should be discussed. If my partner or I aren’t comfortable with someone staying for whatever reason then they don’t stay.
Did you communicate that it was important to you vs just a polite invite? Does he know this cousin?
Should he be a little more intuitive? Yeah, I’d hope so. But you have to ask for what you want and let people know when it’s important vs casual/optional.
Tell him.