Keeping stuff is pretty normal. I have small salt packets in my jacket pocket. But i only ever carry 2, because you never know when needed and i actually use it every now and then.
The pet fur would creep me out a little. But if she kept in in a nice box so it would be apparent that it is a memento and not like serial killer trophys in plastic bags i wouldn't think much of it.
But.. killing carbonated beverages is a total crime in my world.
I don't know if she is a bad person but she is certainly self-centered and out of touch with reality. She lacks compassion for her sisters, gives a free pass to her dad, believes she deserves the perks she has received and appears to lack a moral compass. Her lying about SA is the tip of the iceberg.
Think this through. Do you think she will be faithful to you? Would she allow you to set boundaries on her dad's involvement in your life? Can you trust her to put the safety of a daughter or niece over her own comfort and sense of entitlement if her dad was to assault one of them? Would she ever lie about you to get something she wanted? Do you feel safe trusting her with your secrets?
Her father mistreated her in ways she does not recognize. He trained her to be terrible. It does not sound like she understands that even now.
“In the criminal justice system, sexually based offenses are considered especially heinous. In New York City, the dedicated detectives who investigate these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as the Special Victims Unit. These are their stories… dun dun!”
I mean, he was kind of rude when he said… Not to be an asshole, but we’re not in a relationship, access to my Instagram and things like that, is a privilege, that you no longer have access to. If we’re not dating, why would you wanna see my stuff anyway?
I mean I guess I get it, but he was kind of rude about it.
Counseling/therapy for any of us is not an option, neither of my parents will go for that.
Why isn't it an option for you, OP?
Ffs lol get over it
Keeping stuff is pretty normal. I have small salt packets in my jacket pocket. But i only ever carry 2, because you never know when needed and i actually use it every now and then.
The pet fur would creep me out a little. But if she kept in in a nice box so it would be apparent that it is a memento and not like serial killer trophys in plastic bags i wouldn't think much of it.
But.. killing carbonated beverages is a total crime in my world.
Reconsider this marriage.
I don't know if she is a bad person but she is certainly self-centered and out of touch with reality. She lacks compassion for her sisters, gives a free pass to her dad, believes she deserves the perks she has received and appears to lack a moral compass. Her lying about SA is the tip of the iceberg.
Think this through. Do you think she will be faithful to you? Would she allow you to set boundaries on her dad's involvement in your life? Can you trust her to put the safety of a daughter or niece over her own comfort and sense of entitlement if her dad was to assault one of them? Would she ever lie about you to get something she wanted? Do you feel safe trusting her with your secrets?
Her father mistreated her in ways she does not recognize. He trained her to be terrible. It does not sound like she understands that even now.
“In the criminal justice system, sexually based offenses are considered especially heinous. In New York City, the dedicated detectives who investigate these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as the Special Victims Unit. These are their stories… dun dun!”
OP was 12 and he was a 19 yo Pedo ??
Yes.
I mean, he was kind of rude when he said… Not to be an asshole, but we’re not in a relationship, access to my Instagram and things like that, is a privilege, that you no longer have access to. If we’re not dating, why would you wanna see my stuff anyway?
I mean I guess I get it, but he was kind of rude about it.
It's r/relationships, there's a 90% chance it's fake anyway.