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Date: October 8, 2022
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How should you proceed?
You should stop spending this much time and energy thinking about what someone who is not your partner thinks or feels about you. You should probably also end your relationship, your partner deserves better. ?
She might not be cheating yet, but she's on the way.
The process may be irreversible. I think she's monkey-branching to the new guy.
Ironically you should stay single. Leave all dating apps and stop all casual romances. Have a long very hot look in the mirror. Be sincere with yourself. Make a list of things to work on. Not in a self hating way but just a list as if it was for work. Make yourself the best version of yourself. Stop worrying about looking and someone will come to you. Be honest to yourself there’s areas of your personality that could be made more developed right? Patterns you have, bad coping mechanisms, hurt from the past. Deal with these insecurity’s head on and everything will fall into place and romantically as well. Become the best version of you you can. You must be whole before you can be a part (of a relationship). Also you are only 23- plenty of time left. Any relationship you enter should be a complimentary extra to your life, not so your not bored or lonely or so it can fill your friend/mothers/fathers/gods absence. It has to be a conscious choice not a reactive need.
He told you to cry it out when you told him you have anxiety? That is extremely callous and wrong for him to say this to you. Not only is he treating you as a friend he can get intimacy from whenever he wants it, he’s also not treating you as a person with feelings which you absolutely are.
It’s very obvious that he is uncaring toward you and cold. He only sees you as good for one thing, and you are so much more than that. I’m so sorry that you have been treated this way by someone, but even though I know I’m just a stranger on the internet, I’m proud of you for making the decision to move on because you’re making the right decision.
The first step would be that you should block him from all social media platforms. Block his number as well and block any other forms of contact you had with him where you have an open line of communication. I also suggest deleting any and all photos you have taken together if you have them stashed away anywhere else and deleting all texts from him and any screenshots of your conversations.
Your end goal is to move on from this relationship and to lessen your feelings for him until you have finally accepted what happened and are able to fully move on. I also highly suggest talk therapy with a therapist you’re truly invested in talking to that can help with strengthening your self-confidence and help you to think more deeply about what happens in your life and your relationships. I have a therapist I absolutely adore and she has helped me to see so much that I couldn’t before. She’s a blessing and I consider her an angel in my life because I don’t know what I would do without her to help me to mentally work through things I honestly couldn’t do myself.
Things will get better, I promise. This will take time, but as you climb the mountain, you’ll get closer and closer to the peak and will fully be able to say you no longer have feelings for this person and have moved on from them. Have faith in yourself. You are a good person, you are worthy, you are beautiful, and you are important. No one can ever take your value away from you, no matter who you encounter or what happens in your life.
So this is gonna be very hot and will cost you your friend
But you're gonna have to go to the police and say that you may have been SA'd
Then you'll go to the hospital to do a semen test, they'll see if you have any semen (which means you were raped)
If there's no semen, you can prove to BF that nothing happened
If there's semen… Well you know what to do then
I agree and I feel like you are doing the right thing. It would be one thing if she understood that it was in fact cheating but the fact that she is refusing to accept that very real fact and then shutting down an conversations about it is a huge red flag.
I know there is a very large possibility she won't want to be friends anymore and I will completely understand if she does decide that.
She openly told him “i'm going to a place where the only goal is to find hookups”
Can you copy and paste where you saw that line in the post? I'm having trouble finding it.
That's a common boundary. You're fine. You handled it fine.
Don't think anymore about it.