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Melissa and Jhonny, 22 y.o.
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Date: October 8, 2022
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He has already shown you he is unreliable as a potential roommate, what makes you think he would be a reliable parent? If you have a kid with him, expect the care and expense to be 100% on you. Find a place that is affordable on your own or with a platonic roommate. Watch his actions, not his words OP. I think your BF has unrealistic expectations of you and life. If I were you, I would be completely selfish and take care of myself. Let him figure out how he is going to be Nick Cannon without money on his own. Good luck OP.
If we move further from the idea that love a miraculous thing that just happens to us, there are all kinds of things to consider. If we treat love as a skill we learn and use, and we treat it as a personal choice, we can put it on balance what motivates us to stay or go. If you truly don't feel good in the relationship and you have unresolvable differences, then it's not worth it to fight for it in my opinion. But if you genuinely like him, it can still be salvageable and a good and strong relationship where both of you can be happy. Based on my own experience and on what I hear, you won't feel the love every minute of a relationship, there will be times when you very much don't feel love for your partner. But that doesn't mean it has to end then and there.
I didn’t bring up your drinking at all. And you misspelled “pity.”
My husband rather likes that I’m so passionate about taking care of people who are vulnerable. He says it’s a turn on when I go all crusade-y over an obvious miscarriage of justice that needs to be corrected. He also likes the fact that I’m literate.
Did a woman dump you for cheating or something? You lose a girl because she wouldn’t tolerate your shitty friends? There’s got to be something behind why you’re so zealously defending leaving a pregnant patient in the dark about her own sexual history and health risks.
My dad always told me, “Son, you are a man, and the world is your urinal.”
So my partner and I have combined everything and we each get the same amount of spending money and we each own half of the savings account, whether he's making more or I am it doesn't matter. We are a team working together. All of our bills and household expenses come from our joint account. So bills, gas, groceries,cleaning supplies, personal hygiene stuff,hair stuff, subscription accounts, car and house insurance, etc. Our spending money that we allocate to ourselves every month is based on 5% of our joint income and we use this for personal expenses like coffee. Everything left over at end of month goes into our savings which we are using to make double payments and lump sum payments on our mortgage. We have 6 months worth of expenses saved up incase of an emergency. We follow dave ramsay!
People don’t say drunk what they haven’t thought sober. Time to give him his walking papers, that’s no way for anyone to online or be treated
Hahaha thanks!! Wasn’t sure about sub rules and didn’t want booted, just in case!
No don’t do it. Propose to your girlfriend on your own time in your own way. Sharing a proposal with your sister is an absolute nightmare and I can almost guarantee that SIL would not be okay with it. Not a lot of people would be.
He was probably asking so that you guys could be prepared to take pictures or whatever, not so that you could also hijack his idea. Wait til you’re ready and propose on a different trip. Don’t be pressured into a half assed thing
If you have to beg a man for him to exhibit accountability….. he’s not a man to be with.
Drop the rope on this guy, seriously.
Women, please for the love of god, raise your standards and throw these guys on their ass. You deserve so much more than begging for the bare fucking minimum.
You’d be a complete fool to open the relationship when you are clearly a monogamous person. She is now garbage to you. If you hesitate or deny her the open relationship, she will only do it anyway. She doesn’t respect you at all. You are better than her ultimatums. Break up and ghost her.
On a house together. Make sure your finances are separate your savings he is saving. But not joint.
Your not married
Next if you both do find a house talk to a lawyer first get a contract.
If you break up house is sold and split or other buys the other out.
On marriage you both are struggling a wedding and children on your budget…not a great start.
He might want a nice wedding
See if you can land a higher paying job or grab a second bank bank bank.
Then show him ok here is x amount for a wedding And a savings for a baby down the line.
He he does not agree then..not happening.
My advice is that you're part of the problem and you won't admit it.
When you do maybe you'll improve your situation.
Tough situation, but I have been in your position before. Here's what was said to me that snapped me out of it: There doesn't have to be something wrong with the other person for the situation not to be right for you. You looked elsewhere for emotional fulfillment because you were missing something in the relationship you had. There's a solid chance that you asked for that stuff in various ways, but it was still absent.
You need to step back, take a very serious and clear look at your relationship, and make sure you're not glossing over the shortcomings just because you want to see the best in him. He could be a wonderful guy, and yet not the right guy for what you need and that's okay. Don't try to hang on or fight for something that was already incomplete just because you're afraid of starting over again. It WILL pass.
My first advice though would be for you to stop calling yourself stupid. The whole psych ward thing is way WAY too much. Give yourself a break.