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Date: October 8, 2022
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I’m glad you broke up with her so she can find someone who respects her
In the beginning there was some boundary crossing with one in particular . But when I brought it up he he had a conversation with her and changed his own behavior so it has been remarkably improved
Is this serious? Yeah no shit you’re struggling with her, she sounds absolutely horrible lol. What did you think was going to happen when you married a woman like this?
She's probably interested, and her comment about her relationship turmoil sounds like she's fishing a bit. Breaks are usually to test the waters. There's no such thing as a “break”. A break is a non-commital breakup just in case neither finds what they're after so they don't have to be alone.
Yeah ur right as much as it hurts I do understand her perspective that I'm not a really a reliable person to be with. And also I'm trying to better myself on my own but tbh sometimes I'm not sure who I'm bettering myself for anymore and it's just hot to wrap my head around where my motivation comes from and what is and isn't healthy motivation if that makes sense. Cause I pull a lot of motivation out of negative emotions and I'm not sure if that's healthy because I'm making progress or if it's really counterproductive.
The cat would probably rather live in a bedroom with her than live! with a stranger. When I caught 2 feral kittens the animal shelter wouldn't take them and told me I could just keep them in my bathroom forever, 1 cat in a bedroom would be more space than that.
Also if the dog gets used to the cat and the cat get the household smell on it the dog will most likely think of the cat as a family member, or at least as household property so not to be destroyed.
You know what? Instead of just down-voting you like everyone else I’m gonna explain why this is a god-awful take:
Whatever else is redeeming in OP’s boyfriend is irrelevant. This issue is solely about OP’s boyfriend feeling entitled to have 100% of his meals made for him under the guise of, “Having someone cook for me is my love language.” Who is basing a relationship solely on this? What led you to that conclusion?
Why are you purporting to know what her WFH day is like? Do you have ANY idea what OP does for a living, what kind of deliverables she is expected to have done and by when? Do you know she can “shut her laptop whenever she wants”? You are delusional if you think not having to physically go into an office means work is a free for all. For example my job is hybrid – I am in the office 3 days a week and WFH the other 2. Some in-office days I can stroll in at 9am and clock out at 5pm, have very few meetings and my day is not at all stressful. Some WFH days I am live for 12 hours straight in back-to-back meetings and trying to get all my shit done in time. Guess what my fiancé does on those days? Manages putting dinner on because even though he went into the physical office, he got done with work well before I did.
I wonder what OP’s boyfriend did to feed himself before he met her. He’s a grown-ass man. He decided to join a physically demanding career and then whine about how tired he is all the time, while simultaneously telling his girlfriend how “easy” it is to cook. So which is it – so easy that he should be able to feed himself despite being tired, or a laborious task that he should appreciate someone is willing to do for him 80% of the time?
She never said she wanted him to come home from work to cook dinner. She acknowledges it’s easier for her to make dinner during the week. She wants him to make dinner sometimes on the weekends, and not complain about variety when he’s not the one cooking.
Your whole “good luck finding a man” thing is just dripping with so much misogyny I feel like a Matt Walsh-shaped goblin manifested in real time as I read that.
She’s not asking for 50/50 in the kitchen. She’s asking for 80/20 with the large onus still on her. Maybe you were too busy turning this into a Mens Rights Activist rant to read the part where she literally says 80/20, you illiterate fucking imbecile.
The only person weaponizing, “If you loved me you’d do this” is him. If he’s allowed to say being cooked for is his love language, why can’t it be hers too?
Who is the he you are talking about?
Why would he be with you then, if he has already dated women that were on the bigger side? You are letting your insecurities get the better of you.
I don't really understand what you're saying, sorry – that I should've asked my boyfriend first? I did speak to him before I even thought about arranging anything, but I told him that chances are I'd have to arrange it for a Friday or Saturday (he works nearly every Fri and Sat because his bar is only open thurs-saturday) since it was most fair on everybody I wanted to invite. More people will be free at weekends, especially where I work
We started dating in December of 2021. We where talking for like 2-3 months before hand. I moved in April of 2022. Once I got off the boat she met me there so we can drive back together. On the car ride back home we had our touches and she was soaked… but when we got home it’s like she didn’t want to have sex after being apart for like 3 months before I moved in. Once I moved in our rent actually went double where I moved in and we are living with our landlords. Sorry I’m bad at making my words and stuff flow together!
Sounds like you have found a deal breaker.
Never tolerate violence.
Time to find a new GF.