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It’s easy to love someone, because you can grow to love someone out of familiarity. It’s harder to be loyal, and this man has shown no loyalty to you. In my mind he doesn’t deserve your love if he isn’t willing to make an effort to make you feel loved back.
Don’t let your self-imposed sense of “honoring your word” be her ticket to a free support system she has to do zero work for.
Did she honor anything towards it for you? Fuck no, she was looking for action and validation on the side from damn near day one. You were never really her boyfriend, you were her ATM.
oh I didn't know vaginas closed up shop for the week, lol. Thanks for letting me know.
You also know she's on her period because… ? You were hot together and she said she didn't want to have sex because she's on her period so you just fooled around? Still cheating, bud.
At some point, you need to stop looking for something to say and realize it's time to walk away. You've talked about this and nothing has changed. As such, you're living your future. Is that how you want to live?
You’re in between a rock and a naked place then. In your boyfriends mind, the fact that you were willing to have a threesome with someone else but not with him means that you care less about him than about the person you had a threesome with, even though the opposite is true.
I’ll just be honest with you, this relationship is probably doomed. Having sex with two women at once is the sexual fantasy for most men. The fact that you were willing to do it for someone else but not for your boyfriend will almost definitely cause resentment.
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It’s easy to love someone, because you can grow to love someone out of familiarity. It’s harder to be loyal, and this man has shown no loyalty to you. In my mind he doesn’t deserve your love if he isn’t willing to make an effort to make you feel loved back.
Don’t let your self-imposed sense of “honoring your word” be her ticket to a free support system she has to do zero work for.
Did she honor anything towards it for you? Fuck no, she was looking for action and validation on the side from damn near day one. You were never really her boyfriend, you were her ATM.
Everyday I thank god that I am not as stupid and gullible as some people in the world.
Sorry but your relationship is over. It's just a shell now. Your husband and best friend corrupted it and are horrible
I was 20. We both look very similar age wise and the age gap has never really been an issue.
oh I didn't know vaginas closed up shop for the week, lol. Thanks for letting me know.
You also know she's on her period because… ? You were hot together and she said she didn't want to have sex because she's on her period so you just fooled around? Still cheating, bud.
At some point, you need to stop looking for something to say and realize it's time to walk away. You've talked about this and nothing has changed. As such, you're living your future. Is that how you want to live?
You’re in between a rock and a naked place then. In your boyfriends mind, the fact that you were willing to have a threesome with someone else but not with him means that you care less about him than about the person you had a threesome with, even though the opposite is true.
I’ll just be honest with you, this relationship is probably doomed. Having sex with two women at once is the sexual fantasy for most men. The fact that you were willing to do it for someone else but not for your boyfriend will almost definitely cause resentment.