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Doggy [GOAL MET]
Date: October 8, 2022
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Doggy [GOAL MET]
You sound like a shit lawyer Lmao
Why'd you and your ex break up?
It says 24..and what's the problem with that?
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This break-up doesn’t sound like the ‘mutual, healthy decision’ you described in your post.
If it was, you would change the password and also ask her why she had still been accessing the account.
If it’s not, change the password and don’t speak to each of other again.
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Learn to format and write and you'll have a shot at people reading your question, my dude.
So normally, in your relationship, he changes things when you ask him to, but that's when you're on equal footing, right? If he'd treated you like the way he did on this trip for your whole relationship, it wouldn't have lasted very long, would it?
I honestly have a lot of conflicting thoughts about this, about his ambitions for the trip, how he thinks it should have gone, if he had a lot of pressure (either put on him by himself or by his family) for how it should have gone. I don't think he's an evil person or anything like that. But it sounds like other people in his life know he can be a real “my way or the highway” kind of person. And maybe (consciously or unconsciously) he's not normally like that with you, because you'd walk.
I definitely don't think that you should let this slide. I think you should talk to him about it, how it made you feel, how it really ruined your trust in him and see what he does/says. I think if he gets annoyed that you don't just “get over it”, then that's a bad sign that he doesn't think he's done anything wrong, which means he'd probably do it again.
And you're right; crying doesn't mean much. Being willing to talk about it, take ownership for it, and explain himself – not as an excuse, but as a way of outlining where he was coming from so that you BOTH understand how he needs to change his thinking so that he DOESN'T come at it that way again – and do better, those are all the things that mean a lot.
Yeah it has
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