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Look, I was in your situation once. People here are trying to warn you from learning the lesson the hot way. If you’re like me at 17, you probably think you’re mature enough to handle it and your relationship is the exception. All I can tell you is almost every 23 yo man I’ve ever talked to about the idea of dating a 18 yo is creeped out and creeped out by their peers who do it. You should be in difference stages in your life and the idea of dating someone graduating high school when you’re old enough to have already finished university and work full time is weird as hell.
Why do men like young girls? Why do you think? They’re fetishizes (eg teen porn) and they usually fall head over heels fast and are eager to please out of insecurity the age difference causes and the gap in life experience puts him at an advantage.
But like I said, I was in your spot once and I suspect you will choose to learn the hard way.
I really want to try to be as objective as possible here and put everything into context without jumping to conclusions.
Despite the DWI, you didn’t suggest that he’s an alcoholic, but you’ll have to confirm. In saying that, if he is, then if nothing else, an intervention is probably necessary and you should talk to his girlfriend and your family about it.
If you can argue that he’s not an alcoholic, then let’s talk about the two things you mentioned. First, just that he started drinking again doesn’t have to inherently be concerning. If, however, he’s drinking a lot, as in often, maybe daily, and/or always to excess, then revert back to my earlier point.
Second, I think the mention of the word “funeral” is going to make people immediately overreact while ignoring the other context. It certainly stood out to me at first. But it’s not like he went to church or a cemetery completely belligerent. Like many funerals, there was a gathering after where that usually consists of family just being together, eating, and having some drinks together. Seemingly, most people had “fun” if you will so it wasn’t just him. However, he got mean with your parents and I guess made a scene? Why?
Either way, while it may very well create conflict, I absolutely think you should speak up and tell him how you feel. He’s obviously in a rough situation right now and hurting, but he needs help and maybe listening to his best friend will wake him up to that. He might brush you off. He might get angry. But big picture, so what? Would it be better to be silent and let him continue down this path just to avoid him (what would logically be) temporarily upset with you? You’re not trying to be his mom. You’re concerned about someone you love. Good luck.
actually women at 24 cheat less than every age older until they turn 75
I think that unfortunately, the longer you stay in this the more hurt you each will be. Be honest with her and talk it out the best you can. This is the kind of mismatch that you can't solve by being a “better partner” because it's a fundamental difference in needs. If you know that's the way that it is, telling her about it and not wasting more of both of your time is the kindest thing for everyone.
You two are young still. Started dating at 16? Take that break if you need it. Sometimes distance gives perspective.
Also if you have issues to work through, sometimes it's best to do it on your own.