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It's a protection mechanism. You try to reduce your stress by removing yourself from actual and potential stressful situations.
To “improve”, you just need more experiences in dealing with situations in a productive way. You need to know what to do in those situations so you come out on top. Think equivalent of army boot camp in whatever capacity that you can get to.
Honestly, I've had the same thing happen when I was about your age (am 30 now). For some reason I developped a crush on a guy at my university, despite me having comes to term with my sexuality a few years ago.
It felt weird, I knew I was attracted to him and Ibjust didn't know why tf, haha.
But thing is: be always open with yourself. It's awesome that you can admit you have a crush on a guy, despite identifying as lesbian. Denying it and keeping it to yourself would do more harm than good.
What happened with me: there was a summer dance at our university so I asked him out. He declined, I felt a bit embarrassed, but eventually got over it and the crush just fizzled out. A few of my friends knew and they were equally confused, but none of the judged me.
Maybe you are bi, maybe it's just an outlier. Just go with the flow and you will see whether it's just this one dude or you come to the realization you are bi and still like men in whatever small capacity.
I just took it and was like “sexuality is fluid” and it sorted itself out, haha.
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Staying in a culture that’s not working well for you is also stressful.
My best experiences with this have been controlled: my partner and I choose a culture / place we both know and like. We go there, we feel out the waters and decide whether we like it better than where we are.
If we both do, we move. If we both don’t? We come to a consensus.
Your wife seems systematically unhappy. That doesn’t give her the right to decide for all of you what to do, but it does want a long-term fix. Start talking specifics, places that work for both of you. Explain that a place that works for one but not both of you is just trading one unbalanced unhappiness for another.
Visit the place for a week at least. Confirm your impressions by making some friends there together, perhaps digitally.
Set a target in savings of a few thousand euros to cushion the inevitable financial shocks or a move.
Just because she didn't go back to work exactly as agreed upon many years ago doesn't mean it's a lie. Things change…people change. Your wife birthed and raised multiple children. That can exhaust a person mentally and physically. Has she spoken to her doctor about possible depression? It sounds to me like you both need therapy.
The son remembers ops first husband and knew him as his father… that’s the business of anyone who loves the eldest son, why the fuck would op have a right to privacy to an issue that primarily impacts her first two children.
It's a protection mechanism. You try to reduce your stress by removing yourself from actual and potential stressful situations.
To “improve”, you just need more experiences in dealing with situations in a productive way. You need to know what to do in those situations so you come out on top. Think equivalent of army boot camp in whatever capacity that you can get to.
Honestly, I've had the same thing happen when I was about your age (am 30 now). For some reason I developped a crush on a guy at my university, despite me having comes to term with my sexuality a few years ago.
It felt weird, I knew I was attracted to him and Ibjust didn't know why tf, haha.
But thing is: be always open with yourself. It's awesome that you can admit you have a crush on a guy, despite identifying as lesbian. Denying it and keeping it to yourself would do more harm than good.
What happened with me: there was a summer dance at our university so I asked him out. He declined, I felt a bit embarrassed, but eventually got over it and the crush just fizzled out. A few of my friends knew and they were equally confused, but none of the judged me.
Maybe you are bi, maybe it's just an outlier. Just go with the flow and you will see whether it's just this one dude or you come to the realization you are bi and still like men in whatever small capacity.
I just took it and was like “sexuality is fluid” and it sorted itself out, haha.
If the “issues” are enough to make you come on an International Venue
of strangers to aire your dirty laundry, then “Yes”, those issues are
significant and you are already thinking that they are.
Any chance you might start thinking for youself sometime this week?
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Moving into unknown territory can be stressful.
Staying in a culture that’s not working well for you is also stressful.
My best experiences with this have been controlled: my partner and I choose a culture / place we both know and like. We go there, we feel out the waters and decide whether we like it better than where we are.
If we both do, we move. If we both don’t? We come to a consensus.
Your wife seems systematically unhappy. That doesn’t give her the right to decide for all of you what to do, but it does want a long-term fix. Start talking specifics, places that work for both of you. Explain that a place that works for one but not both of you is just trading one unbalanced unhappiness for another.
Visit the place for a week at least. Confirm your impressions by making some friends there together, perhaps digitally.
Set a target in savings of a few thousand euros to cushion the inevitable financial shocks or a move.
Don’t move until you’ve done all of that.
I’m not moving on and forgetting about him so that’s not an option.
The only other option is to live a sad pathetic life then.
I believe in my heart that he is my one true love. We haven’t met in person yet but we’re going to.
You're immaturity is showing. One day you'll look back at this and be embarrassed by yourself.
Thanks I appreciate it!!
Just because she didn't go back to work exactly as agreed upon many years ago doesn't mean it's a lie. Things change…people change. Your wife birthed and raised multiple children. That can exhaust a person mentally and physically. Has she spoken to her doctor about possible depression? It sounds to me like you both need therapy.
Maybe try pot
The son remembers ops first husband and knew him as his father… that’s the business of anyone who loves the eldest son, why the fuck would op have a right to privacy to an issue that primarily impacts her first two children.
Oh she sits beside me in class I can't block her
Erm happy cake day